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writes:HelloI have been in a 5 year relationship with a man, things have been great, we have had our ups and downs like most couples. i feel like this person is my soul mate, and he has told me that his love for me is deep too.we recently came back off holiday together, and he told me that over the last few months he has been thinking of leaving me, wanting his own space. this has come to a big shock and after lots of tears from both parties, he has said we should take it slowly.i am over the moon we are trying, but im so paranoid that he is doing it because i was so upset, and not because he wants to. how do i know this, he reassures me that he wants to give it a go, the more i ask, then the more he becomes frustrated. i have to trust him, and want to make it work, i just dont want to get hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): nobody knows if its going to work out between you both,but if you really do love each other and put all you have into building a solid relationship then you`ll be fine,nobody said it was going to be easy,just take your time and enjoy having each other
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (8 November 2008):
Well you know as much as I do that saying "are you sure you want to do this - you hate me really don't you!!!!!!!!!" is going to get really annoying really fast.
Talk to him about what it is that gave him doubts and focus your efforts on that.
If he wants a less intensive more chilled out relationship then work on that. Find the person you were when he fell in love with you, and be that person. Re-discover old hobbies and be you, that is all you can be.
Good Luck!! xx
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