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I have been married, divorced and have 2 teenage sons...which are great (but teenagers)!tragically lost my oldest sister...been lied to and cheated on by a past ex who I was madly in love with.....I have since learned to be happy with myself, have great friends and I am a great listener, open minded and very mellow. I have learned to be positive and most of all confident and independant and fun....probably why so many people I speak to open up to me....hence deciding to do this....currently single, and enjoying my space...but in no way a man hater...I realise that not everyone is the same and we all have our own special qualities

How can I respond sensibly to my girlfriend when she asks why I look at porn sometimes?

Q.   Hi this looks like a nice site. Hoping I can get some sensible advice. I'm living with my girlfriend, and we have been talking about getting married. Been together more than 2 years. She can be cool, knows I go to strip clubs with the guys some ti...

A.   6 February 2008: been there done that.........a total lack of insecurity from your partner......unfortunately. She feels inadequate that you feel the need to be "oggling" other women, who obviously have great bodies and looks thats why they are employed... (read in full...)

He seems to want to get more intimate but I'm scared I'm doing something wrong.

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been going out for one month. I love him to pieces and love spending time with him. I recently went over to his the other weekend and we watched a film. We lay on his bed kissing for a while and he put his hand up my top and ...

A.   6 February 2008: whooaaa there......one month is certainly not long.... the trouble is hunny as soon as you start...one thing leads to another. take your time, and dont forget you aren't at the "legal" age for sexual intercourse. you dont say how old your boyfrien... (read in full...)

I am developed for my age, I get teased, how should I react?

Q.   umm.. Might need help from agony moms. Well I'm still 12 but my breast are huge and everyone's teasing me about them, and I can't take it anymore what should I do?...

A.   5 February 2008: well....snap the same thing happened to me. You get lots of attention from the males and the bitchiness from the females.....thats life hunny.... the males find it attractive which is natural, at your age though they are not sure how to cope wit... (read in full...)

How do I handle an Old Man being after me?

Q.   My Friend's Grandad Likes Me I Found Out Because He Text Me Telling Me . I Dont No What To Do ?? I've Avoided Him Ever Since He Stopped Me On The Road Too. Please Help Me ...

A.   5 February 2008: oh!!! not good!!! it's not a good thing he has your number for starters...hopefully you kept the message. If you are not prepared or cant talk to anyone; you need to text him back- tell him it is inappropriate him contacting you, you have kept the ... (read in full...)

Should I worry my wife might be gay because she watchs lesbian porn before sex??

Q.   My wife watches lesbian porn before we have sex. Do i have to worry if she is a lesbian????...

A.   5 February 2008: Absolutely not!....... Just because she feels turned on by watching two women together does not make her a lesbian...If you were to ask alot of women the same question and they answered TRUTHFULLY they would agree. It's more of finding the woma... (read in full...)

How do I know I am pleasing my partner by oral or manual stimulation?? Should I abstain from doing this for fear of failing?...

Q.   My question is how do I know if I am pleasing the guy that I am giving a blow job or hand job to? doing And should I be too scared to even do it because I think that they won't like the way I am doing it? Also I need advice on how to give the ...

A.   5 February 2008: firstly....hopefully this is with someone you care about. if so, you need to just relax and let the passion take over...the nmore relaxed you are, the better it will feel for you too. To be honest, if you are nervous and uptight about giving either ... (read in full...)

How can a tall person have intimacy with a short one, without major... inconveniences?

Q.   dear cupid i will try and rephrase this as much as possible, basically my question is how can a tall person have intimate sex with a short person, and lets say the Mr X height is 5"10 and Mrs X is 5"1 wont that suffocate the girls face when on t...

A.   5 February 2008: you will be absolutely fine, believe me.......speaking from experience as a vertically challenged female myself! relax and enjoy...... :)... (read in full...)

She will not stop being friends with a male friend I dislike... is her love not as much as mine is for her?

Q.   why is my gf acting this way. we've been dating for a year now...silly things wants her to stop the relationship. i love her to death and she's the only girl i want cannot imagine my life without her. it happened like 5 times she want to put an ...

A.   5 February 2008: Firstly...why should she give up someone she is obviously close to?...just because he is male has no relevance to the way she feels for you.And, she obviously does feel alot as she takes you back. Even though you are acting like a spoiled child. ... (read in full...)

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