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writes:heyi cheated on my bf of four years recently with a man that ive been in love w/ for almost 10 years. me and the other man had gone out off and on for a long time then we lost touch and got back together. he has a gf too. i don't feel guilty either. what do i do i don't want to leave my bf but i want to be with the other guy too.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (9 March 2007):
 Okay, you stay with your boyfriend and hurt him like hell! Either that or you tell him you would like to continue seeing him but you want to see other people too and he is free to do the same. Tell him you want an open relationship.
Eve
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2007): im in the exact same situation, im not sure what to do either, but i think the best thing to do, is cool down both relationships for a bit and give yourself some time to think, maybe then you'll realise who you really want to be with, or if you just miss the single life...
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2007): Leave him. I`m sure there`s far better than you out there. Bet the on and off ex treats you worse too.
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reader, Bella55  +, writes (9 March 2007):
Looks like you want your cake and eat it. You are not being fair to your man, to this other guy, to his girfriend and especially to yourself and if you want to be with the other guy or any other guy for that matter, stay single. You cant truley love two people at the same time. I have been with my boyfriend for two years and I havent even thought of another man. Why would i when I am completely inlove with him and I want no-one else? Also if you really love someone you would never do anything to cause him pain or do anything to jeapordise your relationship. Sort yourself out, it cant be good for your self respect or your dignity.
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (9 March 2007):
 Well you cant have it every way its up to you to decide who you want. You are not playing fair with your boyfriend cheating on him isnt the way to go and you dont even feel guilty. Give the guy a break end the relationship and go after your new guy. You will both be happier in the long run. Staying with your boyfriend and seeing the other guy behind his back is wrong you may not feel guilty about it but your boyfriend doesnt deserve this.
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