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writes:I'm in a great relationship that's going strong after several months. We have good sex and communicate really well, and I'm happy. Yesterday, we were talking about sex and porn, and juicy stuff like that, and my boyfriend asked if I thought about other guys when I masterbate, and I said (truthfully) that I don't. He was happy, and then without really thinking about it, I told him that the best sex I've ever had is with him, so of course that's what I think about. He was excited of course, and said "Really?! Go me!" Then the conversation kind of ended. Then a few minutes later he said something awkward about how the sex we have is really amazing...which I think is like saying "Yeah, it's not the best I've ever had, but it's nice." I'm trying not to be hurt, but I can't help but keep thinking about it. I imagine now that when he jacks off, he's thinking about the best sex he's had, which apparently wasn't with me. I know I shouldn't have made the statement originally, because it kind of demands an answer, but oh well. How do I get over this and just appreciate what I have?
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (26 May 2010):
 Yep I read from that statement that he's having the best sex he's ever had too.
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reader, cnith +, writes (26 May 2010):
 "The sex we have is really amazing."
I'm sorry, how did that statement turn into "I'm not a great lover." ?
Oh I remember, you're a girl. We think too much.
You know how you get over it? You take it for face value. He thinks the sex you have is amazing! It doesn't mean it's not the best, it doesn't' mean it's the worst, it doesn't mean you suck as a lover. It means it's AMAZING!
Leave it alone. You're fine. :)
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