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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello! I need your help. I have been chatting with him for 5 months.We live in different countries. We understand each other very well. We are like real friends. Recently he has become a manager of very big company and he rarely writes to me. We used to chat for hours, discuss different topics but now we chat for some minutes. He SOMETIMES writes me and he says he is too busy. I think he is honest and straight. He is always online ( he says he gets letters from different people and companies). i tried to behave as he does. I started to ignore him and tell him i am busy. he complained telling "I see you have no wish to speak to me".I really do not understand him. I do not know whether he is pretending or he is really busy. If he has lost interest in chatting with me and ignores me, why does he never let me forget about him texting me and entering my site every day? What should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2010): It would be hard to tell if he is telling the truth at all. That is the problem with online friendships in my opinion. Sounds a little like he was playing hard to get so you would chase him then you did it back and he didn't want to lose you. He may or may not be busy hard to tell. Doesn't sound very fun though. Good luck!
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reader, iiSparkle  +, writes (26 May 2010):
 Hey There,
Well i get what you mean, you say that the guy is a manager well that explains it. Guys are generally honest with girls, if they say they're busy then they're busy. If he didn't want to talk to you then he would have stopped by now, hes only talking to you because he enjoys to. If he didn't want to then he would tell you, he hasn't lost interest he is busy and so doesn't have time to socialize or to talk because hes preoccupied with his work.
Just don't talk to him for 2 days or so and see what happens then when you see him online, casually say "hey" or something and say you haven't had time to come on etc.
Or you could say "hey" the next time hes on and if he says hes busy then leave him to it. theres nothing to be worried about.
Best of Luck :) x
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