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How do I get over his texting and our breakup?

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Question - (1 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 October 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I found out that my boyfriend of two years was texting another woman he said she doesnt mean anything, yet he texted her everyday monday to friday when he was on a two week holiday with me. We broke up as I felt although the texts were vague and not lovey dovey, he called her babe and signed off with loads of kisses. yet when we are apart which is monday to friday he rarely if ever texts me. How do I get over this, he never explained anything.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010):

You did the right thing breaking up, if he is not begging to come back to you, he doesn't love you.

As for how to get over it, there is no easy way. It just takes time and the pain must be endured and will slowly fade even if your heart never heals. (Mine never has but you still find a way to love again.)

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (1 October 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntWell maybe u were a bit rash, alot of men text females doesnt mean they are going to cheat, alot of my friends call me babe and sign texts of with a kiss but you need to trust this man to be in a relationship with him and its obvious you dont. Did he hide the texts from you? If not then least he was open about it.

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