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writes:How do I get him to answer my calls? We had a misunderstanding and he won't talk to me. And I love him. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2007): Why is this misunderstanding only your fault? Misunderstandings usually involve two people...if he is not willing to talk to you about it, then he is either too hurt to forgive you just yet, or he doesn't care enough about keeping you. You calling him all the time gives him all of the power, as if it is only his decision if you will have a relationship or not....so stop calling and walk away. If he looks you up when he is ready, then you can say you are sorry, but if he doesn't then you did not have much of a relationship anyway. People who love each other do not leave or disappear just because of a misunderstanding.
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reader, LostHeart  +, writes (23 February 2007):
 Well You Could Wait And See What Happens OR You Could Withold Your Number :P So he Doesnt No Its You But Whateva You Do When He Answers If You Withhold Your Number The First Thing To Say Is Im Sorry x Good Luck
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (23 February 2007):
 Send him a "I'm sorry" card or note and wait for him to get in contact with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2007): You can't exactly make him answer your calls. Just move on.
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reader, iagirl +, writes (23 February 2007):
 Stop calling! He knows you want to talk to him and when he's ready to talk to you, he will contact you. Right now you're probably just pushing him farther away by calling all the time.
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