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*ewbie31
writes:I've known my bf for three years. He is a quiet guy but funny and outgoing around ther right people. We love eachother and stuff but I dnt rele feel the love. -in an ldr- like when we talk txt or I'm he never calls me a pet name or is really descriptive. And he never looks at my facebook page or responds to my comments on his wall. I want him to be a bit more flirty and tender, but how? I asked him today if hecared if I called him babe or not and he said it soesnt matter. I want it to matter a lil bit. I want him to feel special.
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reader, Newbie31 +, writes (12 September 2010):
Newbie31 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks guys. I guess it is that he's not physically here with me, not necesarily that I need him to call me a pet name. I know he likes me and that's all I need. I just want him around me all the time :P. Thanks again :)
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reader, xanthic +, writes (12 September 2010):
 Some people just aren't very affectionate, regardless of how much they might love someone. If it's not like him to use pet names or get mushy every now and then, that's just how he is. You can subtly let him know you like to be called a certain pet name, and would like to do the same for him, but don't expect a definite change.
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reader, Boy Blue +, writes (12 September 2010):
I think it's harder to do when you both are young and are already in a LDR. But if you start doing it maybe he will do it. Also maybe that is just not his thing, I don't really know. But for these LDR to become healthier you have to talk and express how you really feel to the other.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (12 September 2010):
 Women are more about words and men are more about actions. To please a man it's better to fix him something good to eat, get him tickets to a good movie he would like, rather than sweet talk. Just simply ask him to call you babe, and that he misses you. Or tell him you miss him first. You don't feel the love because he's not physically present.
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