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anonymous
writes:I go out with a boy.hes 15 nd im 14 and i love him alot but i feel that im getting bored with our relationship physically..not because we dont have sex but because i feel we see each other too much and have sex too much but every time i mention a little break or not seeing each other so much he gets offended and thinks i want to dump him. Theres this other boy who i feel pyhsicaly atracted too and he likes me back alot and when i hug him it seems to feel better then my bf's hugs because there different and nice..i would never cheat on my bf but we are having relationship problems and i find my self often upset about it and getting hugs from the one who isnt my bf and i feel guilty about it cause i feel like im being awful to him for feeling like this.So i want to know wot i can do to be attracted to my bf again..and less atracted to the other guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008): If you can't give yourself some space from your boyfriend try to remind yourself of what it is you like about him. Tell him what your feelings are for him and how its important to you to spend some time with him.
You could try suggesting the two of you take a trip somewhere i.e. the beach, the park for a picnic. Make a rule that there's no sexual contact other than a quick kiss on the lips.
If you continue to feel less attracted to your boyfriend perhaps you should think about whether you should be with him. The relationship you have with him sounds more like friendship.
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reader, :):):) +, writes (11 June 2008):
No matter who you are going out with, you're still going to find others attractive. Its human nature. As long as you dont act on it its ok.
Why not have a break from boyfriends altogether? If you're boyfriend is pressuring you to stay in this relationship then he isnt worth having.
Having sex so young and in a pressured relationship can also have a damaging effect of your future relationships.
My advice would be to have a break and giev yourself to time to think about what you really want in life.
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