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How do I fix this if he won't talk to me?

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Question - (24 August 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 August 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *eauty V Brains writes:

i was in a serious relationship with this guy and he dumped me because of his interfiering twin sister who has called multiple problems in our relationship but we always got through them, so this time she told him i was using him and he dumped me because he didnt wawnt his heart broken if i was but we made up because he missed me and i assured him i wasnt using him but the next again day he had fallen out with me and he wouldnt tell me why and because i kept hassling him for an answer he deleted me as a friend on fb and deleted my number, apparently he hates me. when i found out what i had done wrong i added him to tlk bout it and also included that i wanted to tlk bout it and he cud delete me after if he wanted so he added me but when i messaged him he didnt answer and i tho0ugh why would he add me if he didnt want to tlk bout it when i said cud he add me so we cud tlk bout it and i thought maybe his sister was there cause she like hates me. I dont know what to do, how to fix this and i really want to cause i know he still likes me : hes always looking at me or looking and then shaking his head(this is a recent one, a new one) or following me after i've left to see where i was heading (in school at lunch) and when someone mentioned kissing in class we both looked at each other and i just want to talk to him and sort this out, apparently its something i said but he just wont tlk to me. I just want to make things better even if it means just being friends...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010):

If you must talk to him, catch him during school time when he's away from his sister. Otherwise just let him do the chasing, you've got better things to worry about.

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A female reader, DearMe United Kingdom +, writes (24 August 2010):

Hmmm, Maybe you should leave him alone? Stop running after him and giving him the satisfaction? Make it look like you dont care. (And yes it might be hard) But then me might start to miss you, because hes not sure if hes still got you were he wants you. And it he will realsie what hes lost, and that he cant keep messing you around. Then he will either come back to you, or he wont. If he dosnt then, he dosnt care enoguh, So he's not worth it darl. Make it look like your having fun with freinds, other guy friends. If it dosnt work out, and he dosnt care. You really should move on, He just isnt worth it and thats how life goes, you cant run after him forever. Good Luck xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010):

looks like he likes that your chasing him, maybe his sister is putting stuff in his head.what u need to do is and this is hard stop chasing him or calling him he loves that your chasing him what guy dosnt? once he notice your not there calling and txting or what ever he gonna be wanting to know y. and if he misses you he you will notice him trying to get you attension, remember females got the power to have dudes chasing after them i think he has the pwer now cuzz he has a female ( his twin) tell him what to do.. think about it

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (24 August 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntI'd probably dump you for not using caps or punctuation.

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