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writes:So just wanted to know the dating rules. Guy went out with me twice, texts late. I dont wana seem too interested but still kinda mysterious, get him into me....he responds to texts late....shud i reply tonite or tomorrow? shud i not reply at all? if a guy says 'let me know whats up' dose that mean its ON ME to follow thru and remind him of plans for that day? example: guy asks wats ur plans for the week,i say: lets do thurs. unless im tired.he says: sounds good, let me know whats up.I didnt let him know wats up cuz i assumed he'd call, i texted at nite saying i overslept and was sorry. Hes ok with it, saying he passed out too. I just dont want him to think im not interested, but also not think im desperate for him and realy want him. But i still want to see him. Ah wat to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat if I ask him out now? like what if i ask him that morning watcha doing tonite? is that ok?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 April 2010):
Careful, you're playing too much of a game. Men like a certain amount, but will start to think you're not interested if you come up with excuses like you're tired. When a man says 'let me knows what's up', that is your moment to text him. Don't play this too much, or you'll lose him.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (3 April 2010):
You're thinking about it way too much. Be yourself. Playing 'the game' in my opinion doesn't occur if you meet the right person. But if he texted you late...like you should be in bed or you're out partying and didn't hear your phone late, then call him the next day.
Don't say that you want to do something on some day "unless you're tired" because that sounds kind of rude. If some guy said that to me, I definitely wouldn't call him. If you tell him what day is good for you and if he still tries to leave it up to you, tell him that you need to know if it's set in stone because otherwise you have other plans to make. The trick is always to be nice but not too available.
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