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*nnaslace
writes:What advice do you give to women, who runs into a old lover and wants to get back with him? How do we do it? Flirting, dressing sexy, setting up an accidental meeting, etc?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2007): Annaslace, As you clearly stated in your other posting today, this man already is attached to another woman. I stand by what was said to you that posting.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-go-about-getting-my-man.html
Please don't interfere in his relationship with her, dear. That is so wrong, hun. Wait until he becomes available and unattaches himself from her...then you make your move. Take care, dear.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (24 February 2007):
 You run into them and ask them to meet you for coffee one day as friends. Don't dress to kill. Dress smart but casual and just catch up. They could already be with someone else so keep it platonic and friendly. If they aren't attached and are interested then they'll soon give you the vibes and let you know.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (24 February 2007):
 This is dependent on so many factors. In a way I am inclined to agree with the other advice person that no ex is worth going back to but I think that depends a lot on individual circumstances. What I would say is to beware about going back to an ex. When we break up with someone we suddenly forget all their bad points, or at least how bad those things made us feel. Then, if we give them another chance, those problems re-emerge 1000fold. However, I'm well aware this isn't the advice you want to hear and you sound like your mind is pretty much made up about things. I guess the most important thing is to be straight with each other. Talk to him outright. Are you sure he's not seeing someone else now? It would be pretty embarassing to do any of the things you suggested yourself above and then find out he was with someone else. I think that anyone over 18 should be able to talk openly and honestly with anyone theyre interested in so that's the best advice I can give you. Honesty and openness gets the best results.
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reader, luke domachowski +, writes (23 February 2007):
Do something beter move on no ex is worth going back to.
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