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writes:Ok, i went out with this boy for about 2 years, and then we broke up (for out own reasons). About 6 months after this, he got another girlfriend. They have now been dating for about a year. Me and him are really good friends and now we have gone to college and he is on two of my classes so we talk all the time. He has told me in the past that she doesnt like him talking to me because of our past. She flipped at me when she found an old text message on his phone from me saying, i love you. This caused a big argument. Me and my ex also got nominated best couple at our prom which also made her angry, when i cant really do anything about it. Just recently i put a few pictures of a day at college on my myspace. I have quite a few of him, but most of them are of a boy i like (and he likes me too). She also got mad about these as well. She is also friends with one of my friends (lets call her jane) and said i wasnt a true friend because i have a picture of her hiding, and my ex's gf said i sud know that she doesnt like pics of her. Which i do and it wasnt me taking the pic. Jane has told me that the girl has upset her and she is the only one who hasnt been to her new house (as she has moved) and she feels left out. We are also becoming really good friends, as i am the only one who does everthing with her. Help i need to stop her being a jealous freak about it and let her know she is in a loving relationship that cant be broken.thankyouXxX
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007): Now that's the spirit!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk i get it, i back off right.
Well i dont hand round with my ex outside of the lessons i have with him, and im not going to ignore him just because he has a gf.
All the pics off him are down so she has nothing to worry bout
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2007): I think it's completely normal of her to feel the jealousy. After all you had an intimate relationship with her now boyfriend an you are STILL in his life. If you like each other so much Why did you broke up? If the relationship between you too ended ACT LIKE IT.
I think you are being totally insensitive towards this girl and totally enjoying her being jealous of you. Be a mature woman already and understand you are interfering in her life.
Your ex is a disrespectful idiot because he only cares about what's best for him and keeps maintaining you as a close friend knowing this bothers his girlfriend. You two have no right to mess with this girls' peace of mind.
Focus in your present and future and forget the past. Look for new single friends you can add to your MySpace profile and leave your ex and his grilfriend alone. I'm sure if this happens to you you'll be here posting a question about What can you do to keep your boyfriend's ex from interfering in your lives.
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reader, Oblivia  +, writes (17 November 2007):
 Hi,
Letting her know she is in a loving relationship is her boyfriend's job, not yours. My advice to you would be to actually back off a bit and stop interfering. Act mature, show some consideration and stop teasing her by uploading pictures that can be hurting to her. It shouldn't be too hard for you to keep away for some time. And if you really care for your ex and really is such a good friend of his, then you should leave them alone, even if it could feel unfair to you. It will spare you all a lot of pain. Also, if you don't, it might look more as if it is you who haven't gotten over him yet.
Best wishes!
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