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writes:Hi im 16 years old and dealing with a breakup. i was on and off with my ex for 2 years. He was my first love and everything. We would always get into stupid fights and go on a break that did not even last for more then a day. Three weeks ago he randomly was like we dont work im done etc. The next night he went to a party and got with 5 girls ( all girls that we have fought about during our relationship). now he is together with a girl who has the same first and middle name as me! it is so hard seeing them in school and seeing facebook pictures. i cant get him out of my head and he is in my dreams everynight. Last week he was telling me how he sees a future and was giving me the choice to be his friend. I realized the whole friend thing was to hard and i texted him the other night and he was telling me to move on and to leave him alone?. Its been 3 days now since i contacted him but feels like forever.. do you think he will ever come back to me he was inlove he said.
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reader, StarburstGrin +, writes (12 February 2010):
 That is great that you are mature enough to tell him to move on and leave you alone. That is very strong of you. This way he doesn't thing he has you wrapped around his finger so that he can have you as he pleases. It shows that you are respectable and desireable. You have proven to yourself you love yourself, so keep it up. He will feel sorry for giving up such a mature and stable woman once he sees you moving on yourself and immersing yourself in building your future. He will be back if he sees this, I swear.
Perhaps in that process though, you will notice you have a lot more to offer than his arrogant self, and will have a better suited gentleman knocking at your door!
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (12 February 2010):
 The positive thing for you is he is trying to fill a void, YOU, by going out with a girl with the same name as you, it seems as though its only a rebound and he's attempting to replace that emptyness with this other girl. if you can try not to call him for say three months and spend time with your friends. If you can handle it, he will eventually come to you. by then you may not want to be with him anymore.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 February 2010):
He won't come back. Sorry to hurt you like that. But he is a young guy and he really doesn't know what he wants yet. Very cruelly, he dumped you and suddenly moved on. He's a young guy, and he will learn. You'll find a far better guy, so cut contact with him and move on. Focus on your life and what you want from it. He's just an immature little boy.
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