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female
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30-35,
*xshaunaxx
writes:I met this guy two days ago (we'll call him jon) after school while hanging out with a bunch of friends. we were both flirting with each other and he took my cell phone at one point and put in all his info. and had me take his picture to put on the contact.well, my friend who was giving me a ride home got sick so we needed to leave. I was kinda disappointed because I wanted to hang out with jon.on the way home, I got a text message from jon. he told me he was sorry we couldn't stay longer and I told him I wish I could have. so we really got to texting and he told me he liked me but he knew I had a boyfriend so he wouldn't bug me and we would be just friends. but i don't have a boyfriend so I told him that and asked him why he thought I did and he said I was way too cute to not have one. then I got done suprising news from him: he has a girlfriend. and i was suprised and asked him why he's doing this and he said he is going to break up with his girlfriend soon. and we could just see if me and him get along.I was really uneasy about the whole situation, but jon seems like an amazing guy. so that night, I snuck out of the house to go meet jon after he got off of work. we met at the park and started talking and we showed each other pictures on our phones of ourselves and friends. then we went on the playground and started cuddling, I was cold so he held me.I have an anxiety disorder and I will have occasional panic attacks. and of course, this is the night i have to get one... I back away from jon and tell him I'm not feeling well and then I throw up. I was completely embarassed. he made sure I was okay and we went our separate ways for the night.after I got home, he texted me to make sure I was okay and I said I was. then he told me I probably had the butterflies because he did and he wanted to kiss me. I was completely shocked because no one has ever told me that or treated me like this before. then we stopped talking and went to bed.then today we hung out after school again, and we flirted again. but I still felt my anxiey and I was starting to get shakey again.then he had to go to work and I had to go home so we said our goodbyes and we held each other for a while.so I have a few questions...-what's going on between him and his girlfriend?-is it possible for a guy to be this nice and good to me? (I've had a guy use me for sex in my past so I don't have much trust with anyone)-is there any way for me to not feel so nervous around him?I apologize in advance for the length of this and thanks in advance!!
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