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writes:hey ok question most girls seem to think because your not having sex guys wouldnt call u a slut...or any sexual preference of any kind... is there anythi ng else females can do that they can get labeles as a slut? Reply to this Question
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reader, HonningKanin  +, writes (30 October 2009):
 You know when I was in school I loved the power of turning the tables. It was pretty easy and far to hard to wiggle out of since the other person was using such an easy tactic to downgrade.
If I ever was called a slut by a guy, especially when he was surrounded by his friends, the scenerio ended like this.
"You're a fucking slut!"
"Oh I am, am I? So a slut is someone who has alot of sex and isn't a virgin. Are you trying to say you are still a virgin?"
"No i am not a virgin!"
"Oh so you just dont get alot of sex. I see why you are jealous now." And I walked off.
Usually they would try and come back with a bitch or another one word sentence but by then they knew they were had. By then they know I just could care less and had just imbarresed them. I usually never had any problems with bullying. My advise is that people use these words to try and put you down and if you let them get to you they will. If you come across a guy who has already judged you he was not worth the guy to try and be with in the first place. A real man will always ignore rummors and try and get to know you first.
HonningKanin
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell im not sayin i am a slut... or have been called one well at least not to my face becuz i am a virgin but i hang out with guys we grew up together Nd tend to party we dont party every weekend but we do party and i did once get drunk and danced but thats it.. now im not around these guys 24/7 but at one point they all liked me but i turned them away... im just curious what guys wud say bout a girl like this when shes not around.??
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (30 October 2009):
 Simple, you take them to the vet and they got a special gun that puts the label in their ear.
That way, if they got lost, they can be returned to their rightful owner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): The label slut is a sexist term - if a girl sleeps with lots of guys, she is often called a 'slut'. However, if a guy is sleeping with loads of girls, hes a stud or a player, and this is seen as a positive thing. Society dictates that a girl should be ashamed or having lots of sexual partners, while a guy should be congratulated and revered for it by other men - a little hypocritical, no?I wouldn't take much notice of such terms. We live in the 21st century, and unless a degrogatory term has an equivelent for both genders, it shouldnt be taken seriously.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): The label slut is a sexist term - if a girl sleeps with lots of guys, she is often called a 'slut'. However, if a guy is sleeping with loads of girls, hes a stud or a player, and this is seen as a positive thing. Society dictates that a girl should be ashamed or having lots of sexual partners, while a guy should be congratulated and revered for it by other men - a little hypocritical, no?I wouldn't take much notice of such terms. We live in the 21st century, and unless a degrogatory term has an equivelent for both genders, it shouldnt be taken seriously.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): I don't really understand what you're talking about. Who would call you a slut?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): If she flirts with every male that walks on two legs she could still be determined a slut. Especially if she takes advantage of them in any ways.
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reader, hillbillyash  +, writes (30 October 2009):
well first of all i dont like these labels women get because at the end of the day girls who have sex with a boy,usally that boy is just as sexualy active but nothing is said (well hardley) but to answer you question...yes a girl could be named a 'slut' for giving oral sex,or the way you dress may come across as 'sluty',but at the end of the day i wouldent worry what other people think about you or what they say,as long as you know whats what.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (30 October 2009):
 Perhaps you are mixing with the wrong crowd. It can be difficult changing your circle of friends. You should be with people who respect you no matter what you do in your private life. It is also worth bearing in mind that men who use phrases like that to bring someone down may be compensating for their own inadequacy.
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