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Where do you draw the line between cheating and not cheating when it comes to dancing?

Q.   I'm going to ask some... um, shall we say, hypothetical questions here about dancing and whether or not it is "cheating". Hypothetically if you've been with a guy for 4 years or so, and you do these things: 1. Slow dance alone in a room with anot...

A.   30 October 2009: well the first one is not cheating as such,but think about it, if your boyfriend did this with a girl and you was passed out in another room and then some how you found out later,how would you take it what would you say to him??? and theres your ... (read in full...)

Help, I need information about losing my virginity!

Q.   My new bf has been wanting me to have sex with him, but im still not too sure that i want to. I dont no if it will hurt or if i will get caught by my parents but they are never there tho. I'm still a virgin and i don't no about how anything feels. ...

A.   30 October 2009: well for a start your abit young to be having sex,but in saying that if its going to happen its going to happen so..... It will hurt a little bit as your not used to having sex but your body should perpare you for intercorse during foreplay... (read in full...)

I suddenly have this weird feeling that I am gay!

Q.   I am 13 and I have loads of girlfriends and about a month ago I have been having this weird feeling that I am gay and I don't want to be, I want to straight! What is happening and when will it go away? Please help, I don't want to be gay, I have ...

A.   30 October 2009: hi there it sounds to me like maybe your hormones are playing with your feelings.from the people i know that are gay (my brother for one)they have all told me that they KNEW they where gay from as early as 12 they only went out with girls so they ... (read in full...)

My 17 year old daughter hasn't had her period. Any advice?

Q.   I have a 17 year old daughter that has not started her period. I have taken her to several doctors. Does anyone have advice or information on this subject?...

A.   30 October 2009: hiya,i was a late starter i was about 16 and i hadent started either so went to the docters and i found out that i had P.C.O. ( http://www.verity-pcos.org.uk/ )and this can have many effects on your period.other than that i would talk to your family ... (read in full...)

I think I love her, but she just wants to be friends. Should I keep being her friend?

Q.   Please Help!!! Ok so i really like this girl like alot i think i love her. I have told her that i really like her. She had also told me that she really likes me,but the other day out of nowhere she changed her mind and told me that she only sees us ...

A.   30 October 2009: Hi there,they only thing i can say to this is move on.you cant be friends with someone you really like or love or you wouldent be friends because you dont fancey your friends right.i'd stop trying to get with her as a girlfriend and i'd move on and ... (read in full...)

How do females get labeled?

Q.   hey ok question most girls seem to think because your not having sex guys wouldnt call u a slut...or any sexual preference of any kind... is there anythi ng else females can do that they can get labeles as a slut?...

A.   30 October 2009: well first of all i dont like these labels women get because at the end of the day girls who have sex with a boy,usally that boy is just as sexualy active but nothing is said (well hardley) but to answer you question...yes a girl could be named a ... (read in full...)

Am I a whore, or am I just confused?

Q.   i have a bf, and ive cheated on him 2wice. he doesnt know about it. but both times, it wasnt just sex. with the first guy we had had feelings for each other for years and when i was visiting home him and i ended up sleeping together and having this ...

A.   30 October 2009: As long as you can read it,i dont see the problem???? im crap at spelling and writing in genral and i owen my own business(cant affect ya that bad then hey),but you came on here and asked for advice on a RELATIONSHIP not spelling,capitalization and ... (read in full...)

What motivates Peeping Toms? What can I do?

Q.   Dear Agony Aunts, I have a peeping Tom. The police can't catch him. I can't sleep at night. What makes him tick? Is it because he wants me to fear him and to have control over me? ...

A.   28 October 2009: just to agree with the other answers you've been give,yeah id keep telling the polices and write down EVERYTHING he does,maybe invest in cctv out side your house as proof to the police that he is watching you.tell the people next door that way they ... (read in full...)

Why does my man have moodswings??

Q.   hello Why does my man have moodswings? well you see my man is like very romantic with me then in 5minutes time he is rude again or tells me dont you have something to do? i meen then again 30minutes later he want to be all romantic again w...

A.   28 October 2009: i dont know how long you have been together but i would say maybe hes bored or he feels like your spending to much time together,have you told him how you feel and if he comes with nasty remarks like you said he does just say to him that you are ... (read in full...)

Am I a whore, or am I just confused?

Q.   i have a bf, and ive cheated on him 2wice. he doesnt know about it. but both times, it wasnt just sex. with the first guy we had had feelings for each other for years and when i was visiting home him and i ended up sleeping together and having this ...

A.   28 October 2009: hiya right straight answer... NO you are not a whore,you at a age where your mind and body is sexualy active and you cant controll your feelings.us women suffer with this alot lol,i know you say you love your BF but is it love or just the fact you ... (read in full...)

Is he truly not ready, or just not into me?

Q.   Hi there, I met this man who is 30 and has just come out of a 7 year relationship. He bought a house and lived with his ex. She has moved out but they are now going through settlement. He says it is completely over and there is nothing between ...

A.   28 October 2009: Hi there,ive just read you Q,and what i think it is,is that hes been in a relationship for 7years and is selling the house they used to live in witch is prob stressing him out as its really stressfull and even worse i sopose when its involving an ... (read in full...)

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