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writes:On and off since HS my friend and I have always been good friends. We may go a few years and not see each other but when we do we talk and catch up. After 30 years he invited me to visit him. I did and we had the best time. Laughing, talking and just being good friends. We were like this for 9 months. He told me from the beginning he wanted to stay single and that was okay. But I fell in love with him and he knew it. I thought we had found a middle ground until another woman proclaimed her love for him on social media the day after we spent a great evening together. I ask him if she was a girlfriend he said no. So I ask him why did he keep the post up if he didn't like her. Since we had been together for 9 months I told him that single or not that showed me disrespect. He got very upset with me and told me that she was just like me she wouldn't let go. I told him I never pressured him I never invited myself over I always waited for him to invite me. Long story short he has deleted me from social media, kept her and her comment. Told me he was threw with me. Im hurt but better off. I just cant help but want to know how can someone seem so genuine and when they are with you they treat you like a queen and then act as if you done wrong. WHat did I do wrong?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (8 November 2015):
 It's amazing what we guys will say and/or do if we think it will keep a woman interested and MIGHT - just might - lead to us getting her in bed....
You've now experienced that amazing stuff... and have a real decision to make.... i.e. continue was was... or, decide that this guy really doesn't have your interests in-mind very much....
Good luck.....
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reader, boo22  +, writes (8 November 2015):
 Hi hun
You did absolutely nothing wrong honest!
This scenario reminds me of a joke I heard recently
A man tells his wife, hunny I'm just going down to the store....need anything?
He comes back ten years later
He comes through the door and his wife yells..where the hell have you been??!!!
He says....Jesus woman I've only just come through the door, you're suffocating me, I'm going to meet the guys!
He sounds like a grade A player. Just remember the good things about it and chalk it up to experience. X
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reader, jlheinemann +, writes (8 November 2015):
wow...this man was definitely just having fun with you, he was playing you. He did say though, he had no intentions of committing and wanted to stay single. Chances are when you began to protest about the other girl it reinforced his view that you were going to be one of those women that wanted a commitment, right? There is nothing wrong with that so keep on trying to find the right partner for you. He was definitely Mr. Wrong!
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (8 November 2015):
 You called him out and showed him for the man he is, a player who likes to have lots of women.
You did the right thing, not the wrong thing.
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