New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244970 questions, 1084332 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

How comes is it that the girls I seem to attract are incredibly unfaithful?

Tagged as: Cheating, Dating, Friends, Sex, Teenage, Trust issues<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (6 April 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *gtorange writes:

Just wondering here, is it unrealistic to look for a faithful girlfriend at my age (I'm just about 18), I ask because every girl I've dated over the last couple years has cheated one me, and almost all my friends end up having this very same problem.

I often talk to girls and they tell me about them cheating on their boyfriends, so what's the deal with that?

I know not all girls are like this, but all the ones I seem to attract are incredibly unfaithful, and I don't go for chicks I consider to be slutty, so is it just a coincidence all the girls I seem to come in contact with are unfaithful?

I aksed a similar question on here a while ago and the general response I got was "don't go for party girls", so maybe my question should be, is it unrealistic to look for a faithful "party girl".

Thanks.

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008):

maybe you're looking for girls in the wrong places, or are looking at the wrong type of girl. If all your exes have been really similar, try branching out and trying something new. If your exes are party girls, try going for someone more quiet and laid back. I'm 18, and from what I've noticed, most party girls I know are the type that have a new guy every week. of course not all are like that. But the more reserved ones can still have a wild streak but maintain the dignity of a relationship

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008):

i think that you can find a faithfull party girl.

theres just not many out there.when you find someone that cares for you the same way you care for her she wont cheat

i actully dont even no why girls nor guys would cheat it is point less and stupid i think..put just keep looking youll find ur girl and u will no it when you do

good luck

christina-18

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008):

If she is a party girl, then chances are she won't remain faithful to you.

Its not really her fault, she's surrounded by shit every second and it will rub off sooner or later.

Seriously, you want a good relationship, then you will have to look elsewhere then clubs. Nice girls never pick up there because they know the types that frequent such places. In fact nice girls are usually only there with friends and would never go otherwise.

So stop going to the clubs because all you'll find there are hood-rats that probably every guy in the club has tapped before you.

And start going to Gyms, book groups, speed dating, net dating, sporting teams and anything that doesn't require liberal use of Jelly shots to get a woman horny.

Flynn 24

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "How comes is it that the girls I seem to attract are incredibly unfaithful?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0156084000045666!