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How can I trust him? Is he seeing someone else?

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Question - (8 April 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2007)
A female United States age , *hat should i do writes:

i am having mixed feelings about my ex he has told me that we are working on our relationship. He knows that if he gets in a bind that i always back him up.but when it comes to his feelings he wont be open with me, if i called him to do something for me he will. I keep asking him if he is involved with someone his reply is no but i feel like he dont want to hurt me. I just wish he would be honest do i try to get over him or what

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A female reader, elsie United Kingdom +, writes (11 April 2007):

elsie agony auntyes i agree with eve you need to give your ex some space after all he is your ex for a reason.is it you that always contacts him.then i would say stop.youll know soon enough if he really want to see you or not.i wouldnt read too much into the fact he helps you out sounds like hes just being friendly.ps.dont be his back up and carry on living your life.who knows you might meet someone new.

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (8 April 2007):

AskEve agony auntHow long have you both been together? It may be that he's trying to work things out in his own head and needs the space to do this. If he really does love you then he'll come back once his head is clear. What you don't want to do is pressure him with phone calls and texts. Respect his need for space at this time and see if he gets in touch. Give it 3 or 4 weeks, if you haven't heard anything by then this I would say he doesn't want the relationship any more and you need to move on.

Eve

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