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writes:Hey guys, just a quick one :) There is a teacher (no, I don't fancy him/ love him etc) but I do really appreciate him. He is such a lovely guy even in class and we have had a few out of class discussions. We get on well, but I am nothing special to him really. He puts so much effort into teaching my class but all they do is F about and put him down and quite frankly take the P out of him. He gets so exasperated with our class and it seems like only a few of us pay attention, but it seems Im the only one who respects him. Teaching teenage girls is a hard job for a guy like him. They completely disrespect him and I know that it can annoy him quite a bit, but he is still good to us and still teaches us. He doesn't get angry because then he knows it won't help anything, so I guess he's a little trapped.I really want to find a way of telling him without sounding like a teenage girl that's obsessed with him. Okay, yeah, I moved to his class about a term or two ago, but that's because he is a brilliant teacher (class mates have... Other ideas) so if I say anything then he would probably think I'm clingy and desperate, which I'm not. I respect him a lot. Teachers in general put effort into the powerpoints and lessons and activities etc, but for only a few teachers seem to get any respect at all from the class and it's very weird because I go to a grammar school, ad you'd've thought we'd be more sensible. So how can I go about this? I'm really, really stuck. Xoxo, thanks in advance
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (19 January 2012):
 You'll want to wait until the year is almost over so as to not appear to be pandering, then; a very simple note saying you hope the next teacher you have challenges your mind like he/she has. The words challenge and iluminate are operative terms rather than just teach or educate. The rason is; you can be taught or you can lear from watching television but only a grate teacher can motivate and inspire a mind to look forward to more learning. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2012): At the end of the school year write in a note or card to say how much you appreciate what he has done for the class. That will be enough and will mean a lot. Do nothing before. It may only make you feel embarrassed.
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reader, peace143  +, writes (19 January 2012):
tell your teacher.. i had a teacher that changed my life forever. i think of him everyday and its been over 10 years. i wish he knew how much i appreciate what he has done for me...
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (19 January 2012):
 I would wait until the end of the year, then write a small card thanking him for all the effort he has put into your classes and how much you have learnt this year.
Do you have any other nice teachers? Perhaps you could give more than one card? They are quick and simple to write, but also show you appreciate their time and are dedicated to learning and getting the best education you can.
So few pupils say thank you now. When I was at school, teachers had more respect and far more teenagers were actually interested in learning.
Teaching is a hard and sometimes soul destroying job, when you go in 5 days a week, and hardly any of your pupils care at all about what you are trying to teach them. Pupils like you, who actually WANT to learn and can see school as an amazing opportunity make the job worthwhile. That is why teachers teach, in the hope that in some way or another, they can motivate and pass on the knowledge that they have gained themselves in order to make better futures for the next generation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2012): You want to know the best way from a guy who is training to be a teacher? A card OP, get him a thank you card and detail the ways he's helped you out and why you feel he's a good teacher.
That's it really. Personally I would wait until the end of the year though, that way there'll be no awkwardness in class, it won't look like you're sucking up and there won't be any extra friendliness or weirdness.
Other than being a good, polite student who does their work and puts in effort is reward enough. but a card is something they'll have forever and it really does mean a lot.
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (19 January 2012):
 Why not speak to the head teacher? Tell him/her how much you appreciate what your class teacher does? They can then pass this information on to him (confidentially if you don't want to be mentioned)
I'm sure this teacher will be thrilled to know that his time and effort is appreciated.
When i spent some time covering the English teacher in a small school, one of the pupils said to his form tutor that he though i was a good teacher, because i planned nice lessons for his class, and made English fun for them (the teacher i was covering was very strict). The form tutor told me this and i was absolutely made up!!!
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (19 January 2012):
Hmmm, this is a tough one. You want to say thanks, without seeming like you are obsessed with him, without being dubbed a 'teachers pet' and without treading on any toes.
I have been a teaching assistant for a few years now, and i have seen just how cruel some school pupils can be in lessons. Thank goodness there are pupils like you who actually understand how much work goes into lessons/activities etc and actually appreciate them!!!
As for saying something, towards the end of the year why not buy a 'Thank You Teacher' card and mug for him. Just write in it that you appreciate all he has done over the course of the year. This can be given discreetly, by leaving it at the school office or with another member of staff who can pass it on to him.
I wouldn't necessarily speak to him directly, as this may cause safeguarding issues, or he may feel uncomfortable.
He sounds like a good teacher to put up with all the crap he gets, nice to know there are still people doing the job for the RIGHT reasons!!!
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reader, Fatherly Advice + ♥, writes (19 January 2012):
 I'll tell you what teachers want. They want you to succeed, they want you to understand their topics and move forward in knowledge. That is the best way to show you appreciate him.
Another good thing is to sit towards the front of the class.
As far as a personal note of appreciation. You can send a card by regular post so no one will know you did. I wouldn't worry about putting your name on it, it's o k if he knows who you are. Just stick to the subject. Try to pick one that isn't too flowery. Include an example from class that demonstrates what you appreciate about his teaching. Have your parent look it over before you send it.
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