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He is special to me. What can I do to make my husband feel like he is really special to me?

Q.   im a stay at home mom with three children aged 2 to 7 years. Last night my husband said i don't do half of what he does. i feel bad. i take care of house hold and kids no break. i keep a clean house. He takes care of us to the max. always buyi...

A.   22 January 2013: I also need to say, anytime I have an opinion, it ends up him saying i sh** on him. I have an patient idea. I told him not to tell anyone. It ends up he talked to a couple people trying to get the ball rolling. I get upset because he did not tell me ... (read in full...)

He is special to me. What can I do to make my husband feel like he is really special to me?

Q.   im a stay at home mom with three children aged 2 to 7 years. Last night my husband said i don't do half of what he does. i feel bad. i take care of house hold and kids no break. i keep a clean house. He takes care of us to the max. always buyi...

A.   22 January 2013: thank you everyone, im amazed at the answers i got. i do get caught up in everyday things, but i do need to make more time for us.. thank you for bringing more of a light on how he is acting. he doesnt do anything around the house. i take care... (read in full...)

No GF, I am a virgin and I failed college. My self esteem is at an all time low. How can I gain confidence?

Q.   I am finding it very hard to like myself right now. I flunked out at college, I am a virgin and I have never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl. I have accomplished nothing and feel that I never will. I will be turning 22 in a few days and I don't ...

A.   5 January 2013: eat healthy. fruits and veggies. you will feel like junk if your insides feel like junk. ... (read in full...)

How can I tell this teacher that I respect and appreciate what he does for my class?

Q.   Hey guys, just a quick one :) There is a teacher (no, I don't fancy him/ love him etc) but I do really appreciate him. He is such a lovely guy even in class and we have had a few out of class discussions. We get on well, but I am nothing special ...

A.   19 January 2012: tell your teacher.. i had a teacher that changed my life forever. i think of him everyday and its been over 10 years. i wish he knew how much i appreciate what he has done for me... ... (read in full...)

Why can't I connect well with other people? Is there something wrong with me?

Q.   I'm originally from USA but I've been living in Mexico for the past several months. I love it here, and I've made some wonderful friends, but something has been tearing me up inside lately. I'm worried that there's something profoundly, and ...

A.   20 April 2011: hi.... in every relationship friends to lover, we have to learn who we are inside, but this is ongoing for life. being in another country can be difficult trying to connect with people. show them that you care by inviting them to your home for a ... (read in full...)

Pregnant, BF doesn't want anything to do with the baby, and this might be my only chance to conceive because of a family history of medical problems...

Q.   so im 19 years old and just recently broke up with my boyfriend after being with him for 2 years, we were madly in love aand i still care so deeply about him, but i broke up with him because all we ever did was fight and argue about everything. i...

A.   5 April 2011: this is hard...... i have 3 babies. without the dad, its going to feel like your life is over. and it will be. you are going to be the only one to take care of baby.. if you will regret not having the baby it will haunt you. but you are young and ... (read in full...)

How can I keep myself out of awkward situations??

Q.   Does anyone else go through this? It's driving me crazy Case senario: I was buying something and the clerk asked me for my CVS membership card, and I said "can I give you my phone number"? Obviously I wasn't thinking when I said that, and he start...

A.   5 April 2011: situations that make you uncomfortable will happen all the time... one way or another.. it happens to all of us. no one is perfect. feel good about yourself even when in the situation you mentioned. someone cute can make you stumble words and ... (read in full...)

How do I deal with the lingering trust issues from when my bf cheated?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together 3/4 years, on and off. I'm pretty sure were in love and have been living together for the last year. Thing is we argue all the time because of the past! I'm so upset by it, frustrated with how he claims t...

A.   1 April 2011: its soooooooooooooooooo hard to try to trust again. im in the same boat.... life is short. if u dont have kids move on. its not worth putting yourself through this. wondering, checking, emails facebook, etc... i hear theres good men out there. im ... (read in full...)

I'm worried that he doesn't love me anymore. What should I do?

Q.   I Have been with my boyfiend for nearly 4 years. Our sex life is pratically well..non exsistant! this started to happen since maybe september ish time last year ( 2010)sex maybe once a week is accetable?? or not even that every couple of weeks! F...

A.   17 March 2011: every women needs to feel love and wanted... maybe treating him like a man would help. do something nasty, sexy for him... try something you guys have never tried. ask him what he wants and do your best.... ... (read in full...)

Am I failing somewhere?

Q.   I am in a lesbian relationshp, just met this girl a month ago. We love each other, she broke up with her 2yr girlfriend bcoz of me and i also broke up with myne....now we are having this huge problem together, she does not reach climax, our rounds ...

A.   17 March 2011: try toys..... ... (read in full...)

I can't stand feeling this way any more

Q.   my life is a mess and i cant stand it no more, all i do is wake up and mop about my house i only have a part time job so only work 2 days a week, i dont drive and due to not having a full time job, havnt got enough money to learn. me and my ...

A.   17 March 2011: when things get ruff for me i always think that theres worse off people in the world. people living right know have it a lot worse then i... i think of all the things iam grateful for... whatever that might be to you... get up get dressed, nice. eat ... (read in full...)

I think I might be bisexual or bi-curious, how do I tell people this?

Q.   Ok I think I'm either bisexual or bi-curious. And I'm not too sure how the girl I like will respond if she finds out. Please help how should I go about telling people about it? Thanks ...

A.   2 March 2011: on a scale of 1-10, 1 being not interested, 10 being totally gay. everyone falls somewhere. be true to yourself. dont worry about having to tell anybody anything about your sex life. you will find people that understand over time. im a 6 or 7, but ... (read in full...)

I have serious problems in breathing, but the doctors cannot find anything wrong!

Q.   Okay so this isn't a relationship question but i get good advice from this website so here goes.. for about the past three months i have been having episodes where i feel like i do not get enough air when i breathe. It all started one day while ...

A.   1 March 2011: your young.... do you eat right and drink lots of water? it could be lack of nutrition. i studied and practice holistic medicine. it changed my life. theres a true way to take care of your body. you are a living thing and food you eat needs to be ... (read in full...)

He's 38, and I'm 21. Someday I would like to have kids, but he doesn't think he wants them. Should I stay?

Q.   I am 21 years old and have been with my 38 year old boyfriend for over a year...we live together and get on sooooo well. He never upsets me, treats me like a princess and I love him to bits. The problem is, I would like to have children in the ...

A.   28 February 2011: its hard.... but dating is to find that one that will work for you. the age has a little gap, but wanting children is a big part of life.... i never wanted kids ( i have 3 under 5years)and it taught me a lot about what life is about. it is what ... (read in full...)

I've never had a relationship and I've always used escorts. Would it be fair of me to have a real relationship?

Q.   Dear All, I am having a complex problem as of now and need you to give me some advice. Let me first give you a brief summary about myself. I am a 28 year old moderately successful man. I was born in poverty and learnt the hard lesson of life qui...

A.   28 February 2011: you are a young man becoming a real man. theres 4 stages in life. 1st. being young. around 28 years old, you start the second part, family....3rd, middle age, 4th the last part of your life. life is a trip. find a girl that can keep up with you, ... (read in full...)

I'm straight...is this normal?

Q.   I am 23 female and straight. But i'm only turned on by lesbian porn, is this normal???...

A.   28 February 2011: soooo true what libra said. i love looking at women. we are beautiful creatures. try one out : ) im straight too. ... (read in full...)

I don't know if this is what I want anymore..

Q.   I have just split up with my partner of 16 yrs. He loves me totally, but I am so confused. Things haven't been right for a while and I don't know if I am still in love with him or not...I am in my 30's and he was my 1st love, but lately I have been ...

A.   28 February 2011: It's hard to say. I always want to see a partnership work out. I never was with anyone that long, but man what we go through to be with someone... I'm sure most people in relationships think the same at some point. You are young, life is short. ... (read in full...)

We both just got out of other relationships. I like him, but he acts hot and cold toward me! Why?

Q.   Well where to start with this one ... My boyfriend, now ex boyfriend, who I was with for 4 years, (I am now 20), well we have split up and it has been very hard for me. He was my first love and boyfriend but we have been through some very difficult ...

A.   27 February 2011: you are young. learn from these feelings. have fun in life but be safe.... life is toooooo short. its always hard to get over the first love. but be true to yourself, dont lower yourself for someone that cheated on you. you are only cheating ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is best friends with her ex!

Q.   I really really like my gf. But she is best friends with her ex. She tells him everything, and it kills me. In all honesty i understand being friends with an ex, but being best friends. Its more than i can take but i cant be the kind of guy who ...

A.   27 February 2011: she seems to still have feelings for him. if they had sex its passed friendship. she is not respecting you. you should be her bestfriend, lover. being in a relationship you should be able to be yourself or if not you are cheating yourself. you are ... (read in full...)

I caught my fiance sexting his ex!

Q.   I need help. i have no one to talk to. my fiancée texted his ex girlfriend, that cheated on him, saying he want to squirt a load in her. this is the second time i caught him saying sexual things to her. the texts where a year apart. he said that i ...

A.   26 February 2011: i hate how your you guys are right........ thank you. life is a trip, always ups and downs.... wonder whats next....... (read in full...)

Feeling depressed after a girl rejected me

Q.   I've been really depressed for a long time now, feeling like I have nothing to live for. but then around a year ago, at school, I met a girl in my class. She was a good friend of mine for a while. She was nice and beautiful inside and out. I star...

A.   26 February 2011: life is beautiful. big world too. you need to see it first. remember to love yourself first and that will show. you have to love yourself. get out there. so many wonderful things to see. find who you are then try to find a women the same as you. ... (read in full...)

Me and my boyfriend want a baby together, how do I tell my parents??

Q.   I want a baby and so does my boyfriend but I'm only 15 this year and I'm worried about telling my parents. I reallly know I'm to young but I love kids so much and just want one to have 4 myself. I am a babysitter so I'm forever looking after kids ...

A.   26 February 2011: lots of girls feel this way when young. dont get pregnant! i have 3 babies myself. its hard. we have levels in life we have to get to first. you are not there yet. if you dont get to these levels you want be the best mother you can be. it takes ... (read in full...)

Ex boyfriend in jail keeps writing to me saying he's changed.

Q.   Hi i have another question after my ex boyfriend doing all that messed up shit to me and now being in jail i havent talked to him or wrote to him but he has been writing me for months already telling me hes sorry and that he changed and he wants me ...

A.   26 February 2011: ive been through similar relationship. they will say anything when they are in there. they have no life in jail. dont waste your time.... you deserve better. remember that:) ... (read in full...)

10 Things Guys really want in a woman...

Q.   I received a message from a friend on my Facebook fan page and she had an idea for a post for my blog. She inquired if I could write about what men want in a woman. I thought that this might be interesting as well, so I responded to her message and ...

A.   26 February 2011: thats really cool of you to make an effort to make this list. it my help a lot of people. ... (read in full...)

I caught my fiance sexting his ex!

Q.   I need help. i have no one to talk to. my fiancée texted his ex girlfriend, that cheated on him, saying he want to squirt a load in her. this is the second time i caught him saying sexual things to her. the texts where a year apart. he said that i ...

A.   26 February 2011: i never wrote anything online before. thank you for the response... he is a very nice man and tried to take the part of the family man ( with my 2 other kids). they love him to death and not to mention i love him still after what he did. but at the ... (read in full...)

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