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26-29,
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writes:I split with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago, but I cant move on. I still love him, i still feel something for him and i cant see my future without him. We've spoke for the past 2 days about trying again, he said im the only one he wants and i trust him enough to believe him. We both want each other back, but the problem is my family and friends. They didnt like it when i was with him, because they said 'long distance' relationships dont work. But we did, the thing that was stopping us was our education, all our time was spent on school and not enough time on each other, thats changed now as we both left school. So were trying again, but could you please help and give any advice on what to do with my friends and family. It would be much appreciated.x
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reader, OhGetReal  +, writes (10 August 2010):
 Are you really only 13-15? You are too young to be in such a relationship that weighs you down and takes your focus off of school. Yeah, that is what your time is suppose to be spent on, not agonizing over some boy who lives too far to spend time with.
You don't need to do anything with your friends and family, they can see that this "thing" isn't healthy for you, so take your cue from their advice and get back to being you. You don't need a boyfriend to feel good, or to feel good about yourself. It would be much better for you to put your focus ON YOU and to achieve your goals in school so you can get some good grades and perhaps even earn a scholorship to college some day or entrance into some advanced classes in high school. Your main job right now is school and suceeding at school, not succeeding at keeping the same boyfriend.
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