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How can I stop thinking about the future and think about the here and now??

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Question - (28 November 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok i recently came on and said i was stessing about leaving school although i dont leave till may 2009.

I am still upset and recently had a dream about the last day of year 11 which triggerd all thease emotions. I know i can always stop for sixth form or go to collge but i still feel depressed about it and i like school and all my freinds how can i stop thinking about the future and think about now?

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A female reader, carergal United Kingdom +, writes (28 November 2007):

carergal agony auntHello

I know you are worrying i went through the excat same thing i was worrying.

The way i got over it was hanging with mates and doing more to preoccupies me and take my mind off school. I still done my work and the when yr 11 came it was easier than i thought also i wasn't stressing.

Also before you go bed relax think of someone you love or what you want to do with mates the next day and your mind should stay fixated on that.

I hope this helps you.

Good luck.

((HUGS)) X

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A female reader, Midge United Kingdom +, writes (28 November 2007):

Midge agony auntIts will be the end of a chapter in your life, but the start of a whole new book for you.

You think you like school now, well you will love college or university even more. You think schools a party, well college and university is an even bigger party. Hard work but so much fun!

You may have friends now, but you will have so many more when you get to college or university!

I think its a good thing that you are thinking about the future, but you have a way to go before you have some hard decisions about what you want to do. Have a goal, stick to it! For instance, if you want to be a lawyer, start getting good grades at school now because it will help when its time to start applying for universities. But have fun at the same time! Its a great journey and one you should enjoy travelling! Stop thinking about it as the end of your life, its really not! Its the start of something beautiful instead!

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A male reader, TomWilkinson United Kingdom +, writes (28 November 2007):

TomWilkinson agony auntYou're worrying about this way too much, it will be a sad time, but it'll be a much happier time than you think. At school you think these people will be your best friends forever and you never want to leave them, but trust me, you will make new friends, and keep in touch with the old. A lot of people (particularly girls I've noticed) see leaving school as the end of their lives, but eventually everyone realises, it's just the beginning. x

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