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writes:Hi,I met this girl just over a month ago, I was at a friends party and we chatted a little and she gave me her number. We had a few dates and after about 6-7 dates became an "item". After about another week she broke it off because "She doesn't have time for a relationship right now" or so she says. I can kinda see her point, its exam season at college and she's going to university soon and I am moving to New Zealand for 2 months to work soon. But I really feel like we connected and I really have strong feelings for her and she says the same. My question is, can I reconcile things with her when I come back home in october? If so how?Also even though she claims she has no free time she is out most nights with friends and stuff like that. Does she actually care or is she just being nice?Thanks very much for any help you can give.
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reader, jay12toes  +, writes (13 June 2008):
 right, its possible that her feelings will have changed by october. on the other hand though you will be out of exam sesion. so i would say that you should see where she stands in october, and if she dousnt want you, then move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): I suggest you do not dwell on this to much now and see what happens when you are home in October. For now, stay in touch and be friends.
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