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How can I ask this girl out without scaring her off?

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Question - (11 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

this girl in my school is a year younger than me. She is single. I speak to her on msn, and she tells me about her problems. I want to ask her out, but i do not know the first step without scaring the crap out of her! Do i talk to her more first? How? I never see her because i've finished school few weeks ago.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2008):

Just relax....Try asking her to a movie, or something very casual. That way there is no romantic pressure. Just be your self. She must feel comfortable with you to discuss her problems. Just be there for her...without confessing your undying love, now that would scare. Just be her friend, and make things easy on you until your feel comfortable asking her out on a date. Good Luck Mr.!!

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A male reader, nenene United States +, writes (11 July 2008):

Well since you haven't seen her in a while. When you talk to her, bring up the idea of you two hanging out, or going to see a movie. But yes, talking to her would definitely help and meeting up would allow you to do just that. If she agrees to spend time with you that could also show that she has interest in you as well.

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