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How can I last longer than 30 seconds before I orgasm?

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Question - (1 March 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 March 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

is there any way to make you last longer before an orgasm? cause when my guy goes down on me and i last like 30 seconds, its a little embarrassing ya know, any advice would be great!

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A male reader, ChiRaven United States +, writes (2 March 2007):

ChiRaven agony auntYou didn't say how old you are or how long you'd been with your partner(s).

In an established relationship, a partner can sense when a woman is getting close, and back off (if that's what they've agreed to) to prolong her "high" and let her drop back away from that "edge" for a few minutes before he goes after it again. It takes a willing and sensitive partner to do this, and one who is willing to get to know you and your reactions intimately.

But believe me, it's worth it. I've kept my lady hovering right on the brink for really long times (once nearly an hour!) before I pushed her over into that big "O". The first time for the night, I mean. The second one is usually different, following a totally different path.

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (1 March 2007):

cd206 agony auntSo many girls would be so happy to be in your position. The only thing I can suggest which also works for guys who come prematurely is to focus on something completely unsexy when you feel yourself reaching the plateau like your granny with no clothes on or something.

CD

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2007):

seems hes going straight for the kill,ask him to lick and kiss his way to your navel,from there gently and slowly kiss your inner an outer thighs,then lick all around your pubic area aswell as long lingering kisses gently smelling the scent of you enjoying you,then to tease your clit gently before putting his mouth around it sucking firmly but gently and just take it from there

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A female reader, chachacha United Kingdom +, writes (1 March 2007):

That's fabulous! You should enjoy it, dear.

Have a little rest if you need one, often just a minute will do, and then start again with some other activity!

Unlike men, we don't require reloading - the second orgasm is usually better anyway.

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