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writes:I am trying to kick going to the strip club and be with my wife instead all of the time. I am hung up on sex all the time. I don't know what to do. The girl I was emailing has stopped now that she knows I was looking for a relationship. She just wanted money. My mind is messed up now and I feel withdrawal and depressed. Help please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008): Hi Hunny,When you start something like this and it becomes a problem to yourself then you are learning love that although you felt excited about other women you realise that all they really want is your money and have no real interest in you as a person. That can be a very depressing thought as it sometimes doesnt cross your mind as you are taken up by the sexuality part, You have realised so thats a possitive thing hunny, And anything possitive is good. Start by doing something for you and your wife go out as a couple bring the romance back into your marriage there is nothing more powerfull than love sweetheart, When you start living the real life again with your woman and having good times your depression will slowely lift and you will feel better about yourself love, Take it one day at a time and start afresh, You can get back what you feel is missing, The grass always seems greener on the other side hunny but as I say its not the colour its the depth that we need to feel in life. TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE AND PRAYERS MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (4 February 2008):
 Focus your eyes on God and your original aims.You want to kick the strip club habit and want to be with your wife.You are willing to sacrifice anything to be with your wife .Keep your hopes and faith alive and fight this war. I will keep you in my prayers.
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (4 February 2008):
 With those kind of thoughts it sounds like you may need some professional help. Nothing serious but just a person to help you get your mind straight. But, at one point you were attracted to your wife that way. Try to get that feeling back between the two of you. Let her know you need her help.
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