A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey everyone, I'm 25 and I've been single for 6 months and not had any sexual contact for about 7 months. I'm a very sexual person so this has been a little frustrating but I'm trying not to let it get the best of me. But I'm starting to find the more time goes by, the bigger the struggle.Yes I want sex but I can only have sex with people I have a connection with, and I have a lot of self respect so one night stands and ^^^k buddy's are out of the question. So I've spent a lot of time taking my mind off sex, focusing on work and excersising to let off steam. and yup I masturbate every now and then but do try to limit myself as the more do it the more I want sex.SO all this being said when I'm dating, the last thing I want is to reek of desperation as I'll end up punching myself in the face with no relationship to have a steady sexual relations with.I've been on 3 dates (with a guy who we've had a crush on each other for 10 years) and we're really hitting it off, I don't want to mess it up. We've only kissed at the moment.. My minds going nuts, I can't think straight, I don't know what move I should or shouldn't make! I don't want him to lose interest if we do or don't have sexual contact at these early stages. But I also don't want to scare him off, I think maybe he is, I'm scared he can sense my desire for sex or a relationship that it could be putting him off maybe, I don't know! I don't know if he even is losing interest! He's very mysterious and I've had to ask him out on the next date - wrong move?! (This is how crazy I am hah I need to get laid I know *rolls eyes* hahaaa) Helllppppp!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2015): Take it slowly. The longer you have the guy waiting for sex, the longer the relationship will last. talk about it if you feel comfortable and see whether you like the same things.
You are clearly highly sexed which some guys will love but don't give it away as you will only end up getting hurt.
Good luck!
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