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writes:Last year I fell head over heels for this amazing guy. He was my first love, and still is my current love. The problem is that he has a girlfriend.I don't know how he feels about me and I don't know how his relationship with his girlfriend is going now. Of course the only thing I want in the world is to be with him but I know I can't. Because of this I really want to let go and move on with my life but I can't bring my self to do it. I'm torn between waiting for him and forgetting about him. How can I get over him?
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (16 January 2012):
 There is no easy way of getting over an ex you love... it simply takes TIME to heal your heart, and surrounding yourself with good friends to talk to ( or a support system to help you) during this difficult time. Taking up a new hobby and remaining active will also keep him off your mind.
He has a girlfriend and this is something you cannot control. He's made his choice. Now make yours.
Overall from what you have said the best thing would be to move on and be happy however hard it may seem now in the long run it would be for the best.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 January 2012):
 I know it is hard to get over someone, especially when they have another girlfriend and you have not had a chance with him. But for now off course it is better to forget about him because he has a girlfriend. I think you just need to accept that he is with someone else and you need to move forward and find a man that can be yours. You need to just try and avoid him and whenever you are thinking about him distract yourself and keep telling yourself that you cannot have him and look elsewhere. Try flirting with other guys to get him out of your system.
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