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I am generally quite a happy person but i have joined here because i am need of advice!

Does being too nice drive women away?

Q.   Along time ago my mother told me I was too nice to women and this is why my relationships never last.I have been married two times.The first about 5 years and the second about 9 years..I have had a couple of girl friends after this but nothing ...

A.   8 October 2009: Well i know some girls who have actually said to me "god, i hate it when guys are nice! its so annoying". But your wives obviously didn't think this, they married you so surely they would have known you were nice, and liked it. Maybe your mum means ... (read in full...)

He says I'm not giving him enough space!

Q.   we have been dating for 2mnts , last night i went to his place after a party he wanted sex but i was having my periods so he suggested we do it from the back, i refused . after i got back home in the morning he did not call me the whole day so i ...

A.   8 October 2009: hmm.. its hard because it definitely sounds like you are giving him enough space. I think he is probably just a very personal guy, this seems to be recurring theme for couples though! one wants more space than the other, you should just wait it out, ... (read in full...)

Should I try to help him with his drug addiction?

Q.   Ok so here's the thing: I like this guy that keeps saying he likes me and wishes he could get the courage to ask someone out. I have good feeling it's me but we have been like brother and sister for about 7 years. He does do drugs and he has...

A.   8 October 2009: I don't think you should start dating him, drugs can f**k up relationships so bad. If you start dating him when he is doing them, he won't quit because he will think you like him even though he does drugs. I know it's not nice, but you shouldn'... (read in full...)

How can I get over being so controlling? Is it justified?

Q.   This woman was my first real relationship. Real as In a person I could see myself marrying. I grew up with no father and my mom a abused me and ditched me. My best friend who was also a chick ditched me. And my first real girlfriend used me cheated ...

A.   6 October 2009: Yeah man, i can relate with that. Seriously i get so annoyed when i feel like she has ditched me for her friends. I am going to get a hobby, i already go to a drama club once a week but i think i need something that will take up a lot of my time, ... (read in full...)

Do guys wait for their girlfriends if they are virgins?

Q.   I told to my bf whom I dated for one month that Iam virgin..He respected me and said he wait me until Iam ready.. and he wanted to be with me forever. Do the guys wait their gf or change their behaviors toward gf when the girl told to bf she is v...

A.   6 October 2009: Well obviously not all guys are the same, but he should wait for you because its the right thing to do. If he does start to change because you aren't ready yet then you need to talk to him more about it, that you just aren't ready for sex yet ... (read in full...)

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