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writes: I have been going out with my boyfriend for nearly a year now. Just recently I found out that in the first month we were dating he slept with his ex-girlfriend. This hurts me very much and makes me very uncomfortable because they have children together so she is still in his life. He went out with his ex for 9 years. I also found out that when he started to go out with me, she didn't consider their relationship as being over. He said it was, and she was just surprise he actually found someone else that he takes seriously. He said that they were having big problems for the last 2 years of their relationship. He moved out of her place a year before the broke up. I don't know how I am suppose to react to all of this. It makes me seriously question his feelings for me, and makes me extremely jealous when he sees her. Do I have a right to be mad. When he slept with her we weren't in a commited relationship, we were just dating. Also, how can he be possibly over her?
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reader, bonym  +, writes (25 April 2006):
 Dear reader you said, "When he slept with her we weren't in a commited relationship, we were just dating." Dating IS a commitment. This guy has no respect for you. He still has feelings for his ex, thats why he slept with her. I understand why you must be hurt, he was unfaithful, but the simple fact is that he must still have some feelings for her if he was intimate with her during your "dating" period. If he cant be faithful, why should you put up with that, find a guy who will only have eyes for you, not you and his exes. xXx
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