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Is he only with me because he likes my stuff?

Q.   I just got in a new relationship and my boyfriend doesnt act like a boyfriend at all. Whenever he comes to my house hes always on my laptop which i understand since he doesnt have a computer at his house, and he likes to check his email and so ...

A.   24 October 2009: Yeah! you should break up with him. He don't care about you at all. If you don't want to abuse your feeling anymore you should go your way right now.Before everything get worse. If you take more time, it's only you gonna get hurt.He won't be feel ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid he will think I'm unattractive when he sees me naked!

Q.   Hi I need some advice ......Im a virgin...and a bit fat (13stone...5''1)...Im really self conscious about my weight...I want to have sex with my boyfriend .....but Im afraid he'll find me unattractive when he sees me naked??...what should I do...I ...

A.   15 October 2009: No matter what he like you right. You don't have to worry about it. I am fat too.but my bf always say I am sexy. he always joking like I just healthy.Ha :D So, don't worry he love you. Not how your look, he like your heart. Trust me . he like you.... (read in full...)

He lets his family tell him what to do about me

Q.   Hi everybody please help me.I need help.I'm so sad and confuse.I have been date with him for 2 years and we live together.Past 2 month ago we move to his home town. when we live before we don't have no problem. After we moved to his home town he ...

A.   12 October 2009: Thanks Gina. I told him if he love me stay away from everybody and just me and him live life together. I know he want to control me. Even I know i fell in love with him so, I can't move on.I miss him. And I can't follow him because I'm not drive ... (read in full...)

I want to ask her out before she starts liking another guy!

Q.   hey cupid. my problem is i can't ask girl out. her name is ashley. by the way, this is at school. i started noticing that i like her. and later like 2~3 days, she started liking me (im sure about 90%). that was before the big test so about en...

A.   2 October 2009: Well,if you really like that girl you should show her how you feel about her.Don't be shy :D she won't bite you right!Don't you have any friend to help you to tell her. Like your friend start tell her that you like her and stuff like that.So,she ... (read in full...)

B/f is always flirting so I accepted another man's phone number and now I feel guilty!

Q.   Ok here it goes, I have recently got a number from a guy that comes through my store. I would really like to get to know him. But when I accepted his number I felt guilty right afterwards because I do have a b/f. Here's the thing My b/f ...

A.   2 October 2009: You don't have to regret to leaving him cause he cheated on you 4times.You still young enough to get right guys.If he really love you he don't have to put the eyes on another women.So,you should know he is not for you.He is unappreciated your ... (read in full...)

I married him to be accepted, but don't feel passion

Q.   I married my brother's best friend. We have been married for five years and now have a one year old child. I was the black sheep of the family and in a lot of ways, married him to be accepted. We get along well, as friends. But I don't feel ...

A.   1 October 2009: Its only you need to decided whatever make you happy.But, I see not fair for your hasband.I don't know how is your relationship is going but,married is big responsible. He married with you (my guess) he loves you so much.Plus he had child with you.I ... (read in full...)

Relationship going down the drain because of my depression

Q.   Relationship going down the drain because of my depression. My partner just does not understand why i hate the thought of going to sleep and why i cant stand waking up to face another day. Why i cry myself to sleep every night. He says i should just ...

A.   1 October 2009: Well first thing you just need to think that what you really want.If you want to be happy you need to stop thinking about sad things or whatever make you cry.When you go to sleep put your mind like you're in waterfall or something you really like ... (read in full...)

Do I not have a boyfriend because of my looks?

Q.   iam 15 iam young i know...my problem is in my look..i just cant cope with it,maybe because i cant have a boyfreind ..most of my freinds have boyfreinds 2 or more..but me i have zero..i thought maybe because of my look am fat,ugly have nothin nice in ...

A.   30 September 2009: Girl. you need to stop thinking that you are ugly.You are not ugly.Everybody have their beauty,its not only outside of beauty.Inporent thing is you have to beauty inside.If you have good heart one day one person will be see that beautiful heart.I am ... (read in full...)

Why can't I just move on?

Q.   I'm finding it really difficult to get over my first love... the only guy I've ever been in love with. To begin with, it wasn't an official relationship due to long-distance circumstances but I ended up falling for him. In the few months that we ...

A.   27 September 2009: Well, girl you have to move on.He won't be back to you.I have same problem like you.But I still move on.I had boyfriend after aweek I broke up with him.Me and my ex been 7years together. But long distance.We were middle school sweetheart.One day he ... (read in full...)

How are we supposed to date if he wants won't contact me...should I just move on?

Q.   To make a VERY long story short, Me and ex were together for 2 years...so in love...moved in with each other...relationship went downhill, I had my own insecurities and I was clingy and jealous. He has his...needs video games, sports, friends, etc. ...

A.   26 September 2009: Well, I am 21 years old.I had same thing what happen to you now. Just couple month ago.Your boyfriend he just play the game.He just come and go.I don't trust man anymore.Cause he use to call me and texing every hours.And then he stopped. Then he ... (read in full...)

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