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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi i need a help very urgently. I am in love wit a boy of own my religion from past eleven years we both love each other a lot even both of our families also agreed for our relationship but things suddenly changed after his sister marriage my boy friend 's brother in law became against me and told that if my boy friend marries me he would divorce his wife and i was forced to marry an other guy due to family pressure in 2009 and unfortunately the guy whom i married turned to be a gay and i was divorced after three months of my marriage. And now again me and my old boy friend are still in touch and love wit each othdr again and now my parents are forcing me to get married soon but same old problem my boY FRIEND FAMILY not agreeing because am a divorced now. But we cant live without each other and i dont wan to take a chance of marrying any other person of my family choice. My family telling that if my boy friend does not convince his parents they wil get me married again to a different guy as my am becoming old. On other hand my boy friend says he cant face his parents so he is saying me wil run and marry but my parents not agreeing fearing death threatening given to our family by his brother in law in case me and he marries. Am very worried and confused pls help
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2012): first lets get this straight i am surpised thata brother in law has so much say when it comes to making lifelong decision only parants are involved please make both parants sit together and explain it clearly that they are letting someone else make a decision on their behalf make them feel only they are responsible about your lives
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (11 November 2012):
 I am not in touch with Indian culture but I feel like if you try to marry your boyfriend there will be complications in the family and you won't be happy anyway. You have all the right to say to your parents that you won't accept any guy assigned to you since they made a mistake picking a gay guy. It is in your best interest to move on from your boyfriend, remove yourself from the hassle of that family who will always look down on you, and free yourself to find a guy who is more western influenced.
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