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anonymous
writes:Modnote: I assume you meant 2 year old girl?I have a 22 year old little girl and her father and I are not together anymore due to him putting other things before our baby. I now recieve child support and he gets supervised visitations every other saturday for 4 hours which is great..only downside is he doesn't interact with her or play or have anything really to do with her while hes here. He is too busy trying to get me back together with him which I have decided that will never happen. I am all for having him see her and be in her life but hes using this time to get to me and I can't handle it anymore. I want to be there for the visits since my daughter is leary of strangers and I have been told to get a lawyer to change our court order. I don't know what to do. How can I get him to leave me alone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes sorry typo!!
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (13 September 2012):
 Hi
Sorry,misread the question first time, I agree with the others get one of your family to be there instead of you or with you
If you can get them held someplace else it would be alot better too. If you need to go to court then so be it.
If say, your mum is there,then he will just have to put up with it be an adult, and accept you are not interested in getting back with him by your actions
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 September 2012):
 if his visits are supervised have someone else supervise them NOT at your home... what about you mom or dad?
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (13 September 2012):
 How about your mother/brother/sister/friend is there instead of you to supervise?
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reader, oldbag +, writes (13 September 2012):
Hi
If your not present during the visitation your Ex has with your daughter how do you know what he does or doesn't do? Who is telling you - the 'strangers'? They are supposed to be private visits. If she's only two it can't be your daughter.
Why do you need to be present,the whole point is for your Ex to spend quality time with his daughter and not with you watching over them. You have to remember you both love her,you get to live with her though,your Ex gets a few hours a fortnight
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