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He's "miserably" with his wife, I just separated from my spouse. He wanted to date me in high sch. We met recently and there was an undenyable chemistry. How do I approach this?

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Question - (17 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 October 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I try not to read into dreams to much as I know sometimes they are meaningless and/or fantasy, blahblahblah...... But I had a dream lastnight that I can't get out of my head. About 1 year ago I ran into an old highschool friend of mine. We are both married with kids but neither one of us are happy in our marriages. Long story short, this guy had a major crush on me in highschool but we never dated because I was always dating some other loser at the time. We were always good friends though. When we met up after all the years that separated us, it there was an undenyable chemistry present. We talked off and on for awhile and I always got butterflies in my stomach, but because we were both married we kept it on a friendship level. Well, I changed jobs (which is where we met back up) and chose not to call him anymore because I felt like I was getting too close to him. I had not talked to him or really though TOO much about him for about 8 months now. I have since separated from my husband for unrelated issues. Anyway, I had a reoccuring dream about him last night and it was amazing. No sex involved. It was just pure bliss and I woke up feeling like I was in love. I couldn't get it out of my head so I called him this morning to see how he was. He said he still can't stop thinking about me and that he wishes he would have "snatched" me up in highschool. I'm surly not ready for another relationship and he is still "miserably" with his wife. I guess what I'm getting at is, could this be a sign or should I just let this whole thing go? Thanks.

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (17 October 2007):

Tell him if he ever breaks up with his wife make sure you are the first girl he calls.

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (17 October 2007):

flower girl agony auntYeah it could be a sign, but it should not be reality until he has left his wife and if he likes you that much he will leave her.

Take care.xx.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007):

He is married, miserable or not. You need to both be divorced before you pursue anything together, make that clear to him. Does he plan on getting a divorce?

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