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He's just disappeared

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Question - (9 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 June 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So I've been crushing over this guy the whole quarter, he's really shy and he has shown interest, I've talked to my friends about him and they all think he just got no guts to go up to me, and now its the last week of school, and i'm trying to go and talk to him, but he just disappeared and I don't understand why he has to avoid me? But at the same time all his friends are still staring and smiling at me all the time..I don't get whats going on?

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A female reader, doodles362 United Kingdom +, writes (9 June 2009):

doodles362 agony auntHey,

I don't think he's avoiding you in a bad way. He might just be shy and not know what to say to you.

You say his friends smile at you, if it's a nice smile then he obviously does like you and had spoken to his mates about you. If this is the case he will no doubt be a shy guy and not know what to say to you. I think you should find somewhere that you know he will have to be but can still talk to you, and go there.

Hope this helped.

Kind Regards,

Doodles x

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A female reader, mimisoph3 United States +, writes (9 June 2009):

mimisoph3 agony auntif his friends are smiling and staring at u then he must like u too and is really shy so he told his friends and of course his friends are gonna smile and stare or he told his friends that ur buggin bbut i dont think thats the case..as long as its a sweet smile and sweet kinda star then he might be intrested.some guys are really shy so they have no guts to walk up to a girl at all because they dont know wat to say or how to react.if u feel like u really gotta figure him out and u want to then find him somewhere where he cant hide and just start a conversation..like wat are u doing this summer or something anything and if he keeps talking to u his intrested and if he walks away he might be really shy and doesnt know how to react or he might not be intrested.

no matter what his deal is go talk to him and take the chance.good luck,if u got any questions mail me :D

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