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writes:Why is he hot and cold? I really like him:(?So I've liked this guy for months now. It all started when whenever I'd look up he'd be watching and would look away when I catch him.He'd talk to everyone but me. Now we talk and sometimes he asks questions about me then other times he acts like he doesn't care. But would talk and act really nice and friendly to everytime around:(Hot and cold. and I like him so much and everyone thinks he likes me too but I'm confused.:( does he not like me?What should I do? I get so shy around him. I'm bubbly flirty girl but when I'm with him I tense up and can't say a word in case i sound stupid:(I don't even know how to show him I like him:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2013): Even the richest and most powerful men are intimidated by a woman that they like. Sounds like he's the shy one! And you thought you had the the issue :) Sounds like he is also coy, he doesn't want it to be too obvious that he likes you but boys are never very good at playing coy. Some guys love for a woman to be the forward one but you may never figure that one out until you give him a clear hint that you are interested.
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reader, Atsweet1  +, writes (26 February 2013):
 He probably did a visual gauged and summed up your not available so he is nice to everyone cause he wants to be nice with you also. If he is shy and you are shy and quiet not much will happen if ever. Unless you send the message by someone else and get a responds back like in school that was how it was done. Someone can matchmake you or you can just tell him I like you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2013): He's playing games with you. A person like this isn't worth your affections.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (26 February 2013):
He's not hot and cold, he's shy just like you. It sounds like he likes you but I can't give you any tips on how to interact with people other than to say you probably won't sound like an idiot.
Just gather some courage and talk to him. Ask if he'd like to go on a simple date; not a night time date. Simple dates (such as going for coffee or lunch) are great for shy people.
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