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*lackbeltcadet
writes:Long story short- I liked him, he liked me, i didnt know he did so I promised my friend who also liked me I wouldnt. He asks me out, I say no bc of the promise. We're sad. 2 months pass and i go to prom wih him. People honestly beleive we were going out. I asked him out, he said yes... but we broke up after 4 days beccause he was confused. I still love him like a brother and a friend That was 10 months ago. He has moved on, found a bf that lives in a different state. J has his own bf now. D and I are really close, like brother-sister, kinda. I know that he has a bf, but lately..... Lately he's been acting weird around me. We flirt, yes, I admit it... but he's been flirting a lot more. He did something to me the other day that he has not done to me since before we broke up. He bit me... like a play bite when we were horsing around. Not hard or anything. I didnt want to say anything, but when we were hanging out I noticed that "little D." was kinda excited down there. Well, I was talking with him on aim and we started talking and he brought up how we would make such a great couple... he had not said this since he asked me out origonally a year ago. I reminded him of his bf and that he was gay. I had asked wy it was that all the good boyfriends are gay. He said "Well, I am slightly bi, does that count?" I said that if he ever became single it would. Then he said that if he ever did he would call me. Now we have this odd relationship- like we are siblings, but there is an element of affection there. We understand each other. But I wonder...could he still like me? Why is he acting like that? I know that if he ever were to ask me out I would say yes... I still have feelings for him. What should i do?
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reader, blackbeltcadet +, writes (20 April 2007):
blackbeltcadet is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys... yeah. I have known that he was at least bi since I met him and it hasnt gotten in my hearts way yet. I know that I cant change him, and quite frankly I dont want to ever change him. I'll take your advise, thanks
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reader, macboy  +, writes (19 April 2007):
 I guess I am bisexual.
I've noticed that being bisexual, you don't like girls and guys at the same time.
It's either like one or the other.
Your feelings can change many times within a day, or it can take weeks to change.
So I think this may be what is happening to him.
As ragdoll said, he has admitted he is bisexual.
So if you want a relationship, you need to accept the consequences.
Don't try to change him.
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reader, ragdoll +, writes (19 April 2007):
 he's not gay. he said he was bisexual. that's a totally different thing. if you like him and youre willing to accept the would-be consequences if he falls in love with a guy, then go for it.
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