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He's supposed to be gay but he's flirting with me! Why is he acting like that and does he like me?

Q.   Long story short- I liked him, he liked me, i didnt know he did so I promised my friend who also liked me I wouldnt. He asks me out, I say no bc of the promise. We're sad. 2 months pass and i go to prom wih him. People honestly beleive we were ...

A.   20 April 2007: Thanks guys... yeah. I have known that he was at least bi since I met him and it hasnt gotten in my hearts way yet. I know that I cant change him, and quite frankly I dont want to ever change him. I'll take your advise, thanks... (read in full...)

My husband insults me and seems to use me for sex! I found over 50 texts to another woman on his phone. What do I do?

Q.   hi i need your help i have been marred for 3 years my husband never kisses me he says its because i smoked ,so i gave up.he allways pulls me down about what i wear i was 14 stone now im 9,and he still pulls me down.he says we will not go out on our ...

A.   18 April 2007: Listen to them... cause the ones who posted before me are right. You are a human being and deserve someone better. You shuldnt have to take crap from him, especially if he is cheating. Tell him to shape up or leave him, but dont let him be a ... (read in full...)

I've hurt both of these guys and I've upset myself. What should I do?

Q.   Hiya..this is gna be long and confusin so try and understand plz!! Well i had a bf called Tom* and we had been goin out for just about a month when this other guy told me he liked me.. James* Tom is 13 and im 13 and james is 16 but he was 15 at the ...

A.   18 April 2007: Make a list of pro's and cons about both, then throw the list away and listen to your heart. Which ever one you can see yourself growin old with is the one for you. Ad if you see both, go with the one you really love... not just have a crush on, ... (read in full...)

Am I fat? I have bigger measurements than my friends and its bothers me!

Q.   Am I fat? I'm 5'7''. 14 years old and.. Bust-33 Waist-27 1/2 Hips- 39 Thigh- 31 My friends, who look worse than me, have much smaller measurements, and it's getting me down. Please let me know, and be honest! x...

A.   17 April 2007: Number one- I am 5'8'' and 265lbs... at the age of 16. I dont know my measurements, but I am not small. However... I do not veiw myself as 'fat.' Larger than most- yes, but not fat. Dont let your size get to you. It is ok to be on the heav... (read in full...)

Should I ask a guy out on a date OR go with the theory if he really likes me he will go out of his way to make contact?

Q.   Help!! Should I ask a guy out on a date OR go with the theory if he really likes me he will go out of his way to make contact? I know all about women's lib and all that but isn't it true that if guy really likes a women he will make a move?? Thanks...

A.   13 April 2007: If I were you I would ask him. Dont make it so much of a date, just hanging out alone... you know? Bt dont wait for him to present the question because what if he is too shy? Trust me when I tell you... its worth taking the risk. Be asserive! ... (read in full...)

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