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Should I talk to my ex about getting back together, or just move on and go for my guy friend?

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Question - (18 April 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 April 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok. i am very confused. i like two guys, one is my best guy friend and the other is my ex-bf. all of my friends hate my ex and say i should move on to my guy friend, but i don't really want to. one of my friends think i make a really good couple with my ex though. i like her opinion. i want to know if i should talk to my ex about getting back together, or really move on and go for my guy friend. please help. thanks!

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A male reader, farsight United States +, writes (23 April 2007):

farsight agony auntDon't worry so much what others think and do what your heart tells you.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (19 April 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntJust remember why he became your EX in the first place before you start up with him again.

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A female reader, ragdoll +, writes (19 April 2007):

ragdoll agony aunt"i don't really want to."

i think youve already answered your question, dear.

i mean, if you just listen to your friends without really wanting to, dont you think that it wont work out?

do as you please, but think about it at the same time.

dont force yourself to like yous guy friend more just because it's what everybody wants. it doesnt matter what they think because you know what might happen if you two get back together way better than any of your friends.

you seem willing to take the risk of getting hurt again anyway. if you think he's worth the pain, then go.

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