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*koolof life
writes:Ok, got together with a guy,but he's got problems! His young sons been taken to live in europe this week and he's a drinker..... i know he likes me alot and me him. I dont know if i can cope with him drinking and showing up at my place hammered. Ide like to support him as I know he feels totally gutted about his son going.......but he goes drinking with his pals alot weekends at mo and ends up on the fone to me. When we go out together he doesnt get rat faced, we do have awsom sex too and he treats me well. Do i give up now before i get in too deep or support him and give him a chance ? Reply to this Question
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reader, romanticlover +, writes (9 July 2007):
 give the bloke a chance he needs you and hes lookin to you for support if u dont give him that then hes just gonna drink more
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (9 July 2007):
 I suppose you made the right decision. I hope I helped.
Take care,
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reader, skoolof life +, writes (9 July 2007):
skoolof life is verified as being by the original poster of the question Its finished, am very upset at mo.... but for the best
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (9 July 2007):
I say, give him a chance, but make him understand his drinking is affecting you. He is going through rough times and may not have noticed this unwanted effect of his drinking. Maybe he's relying on you for support, too.
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reader, Ask_HanBan +, writes (9 July 2007):
 Dont give up on him, thats the last thing he needs.
be there for him physically, take him to recovery meeetings, talk to him and maybe if the subject isnt too rore talk about getting joint custody of the child, the child is the reason he is drining, all he needs is comforting words
good luk
hannah :)
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