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SITE NEWS: Moderators needed!

Q.   Hi, with the site getting busier all the time I'm looking for new volunteer moderators... PLEASE READ THIS CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING -- many moderators drop out after just a couple of weeks so if you're not committed please don't apply! ...

A.   21 July 2007: im very interested... (read in full...)

I need THE most safe birth control

Q.   Hey I've been going out with my present boyfriend for nearly a half year and hes mad for me and I'm mad for him. Well 2 things really he wants me to squirt and I think im broken...because I cant. Also I need to find THE most safest things to...

A.   13 July 2007: try condoms or the pill but if you want more extreme methods theres the injection that stops you from conceiving theres the implant and theres the coil use which ever one you feel most comfortable with... (read in full...)

I love my guy but when we are away from each other over summer break I feel its ok to have sex with other guys.

Q.   ok so been with my man for almost 3yrs and we have gone our seperate ways on holiday for the summer i am completely in love with him and would never wanna lose him but wen ppl go away im a believer in the theory that different rules apply!i met a ...

A.   13 July 2007: well we all have drunken fun but its not wise to do it too often if you truly love this man then you will wait for him but if you dont then well find another man or live your life having drunken fun !!!!!! lol... (read in full...)

Are penises supposed to point up when erect?

Q.   When I was younger and dated younger men their penises would always point straight up when erect. The last two guys I dated (one was 44, the other, 40) had penises that when erect, pointed down and even to the side! Is this an age/health thing or ...

A.   13 July 2007: most of the time penises should point up i mean i have enough experiance with my own penis but maybye some men are different to be honest im totaly clueless... (read in full...)

What do I do to get back her interest and for her to fall in love with me?

Q.   I have been in relationship with my girlfriend for 3 years and she is already married to a man. My girlfriend and her husband married due to family pressures when they were young and there have never been any kind of relationship between them. Me ...

A.   12 July 2007: god how many men does this woman have in her life get out of there and get out now you dont need a woman like that... (read in full...)

I have been married 2 years, but I am still a virgin!

Q.   I am in need of urgent help. I am almost 28 years old and married since last two years now. it was a love marriage and we both love each other a lot. But i am still a virgin. I am just so scared of the pain even before we start kissing that i do not ...

A.   12 July 2007: just go for it if your scared of the pain don't think about it but tell him to go slow on your first time cause its better that way... (read in full...)

I need to know if the relationship will be inappropriate due to the age difference.

Q.   Well I'm a 14 year old freshman and I really like this girl who's two years younger than me. She's in seventh grade, which is the same grade as my brother. I need to know if the relationship will be inappropriate due to the age difference, or I ...

A.   12 July 2007: back off she will be imature and it wont be a very gd relationship you want to find someone your own age then you cant have more fun as that will be a person with the same general interests ... (read in full...)

He's the "big brother" type, where he's so nice and everything, and he really looks out for me, but I don't know if that's because he likes me or because he's just that way.

Q.   I've had this neighbor years now, and I used to like him even though we never really talked, but then he graduated high school and moved out to go to college two years ago and I didn't think of him much in those two years. Last year, he transfered ...

A.   12 July 2007: well start being a little bit "flirty" if he gets un comfortable then you know that he doesnt want a relationship but if he takes it in the way that i would then youve definatly got yourself a new boyfriend... (read in full...)

He's drinking heavily due to his sons leaving. Should I leave him?

Q.   Ok, got together with a guy,but he's got problems! His young sons been taken to live in europe this week and he's a drinker..... i know he likes me alot and me him. I dont know if i can cope with him drinking and showing up at my place hammered. ...

A.   9 July 2007: give the bloke a chance he needs you and hes lookin to you for support if u dont give him that then hes just gonna drink more ... (read in full...)

He wants to take us to the next level by having me meet his parents! I'm scared! What do I do?

Q.   hi thanks for your advice and it helped a lot, my boyfriend wants to take our relationship to the next level, he wants me to meet the parents, i'm scared what do i do? i've been putting him off for so long is this guy serious about us?...

A.   9 July 2007: go for it girl act your self and nothin can go wrong but no rubbish jokes mind. only jokin just have fun his parents will love you and you will both be happy... (read in full...)

Is it against the law to date an 18 year old guy when your 14?

Q.   Is it against the law to date an 18 year old guy when your 14?...

A.   9 July 2007: hey im only 13 and i did make the mistake of having sex under age luckily i got of lightly you can date him but dont have any sexual contact wiv im. and if he wants to tell im to keep it in his trousers ... (read in full...)

He wrote a love letter to his ex, told a friend he wished he could see her "hot friend," and more! I'm jealous and insecure - am I overreacting?

Q.   Please help . . . I have been in my relationship for a year and my boyfriend continued to write to his ex girlfriend in Germany. I found one letter (it was not hidden) and it was basically confessing his undying love for her (he has not done tha...

A.   9 July 2007: no your definatly not over reacting you have a right to feal jealous i think you should question him about this stuff and if he doesnt answer then you know what to do.... (read in full...)

Please take the time to read this, I know it is long but it's important to my relationship.

Q.   Please take the time to read this, I know it is long but it's important to my relationship Ok well where do I start... I'm sorry if bits and pieces of this don't make sense, but bear with me, I am writing this as she is leaving the house becaus...

A.   9 July 2007: to be honest you dont need a woman like that . if a woman who you are in a relationship with just sets up some stupid little test like that it means one thing but trouble my advice would be to move on and find a woman that truly loves you and gives ... (read in full...)

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