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writes: I like this girl at work but she is in a bad relationship.She lives with him and also have 2 kids together,I have been doing a lil flirting she has too she teases me on my age she calls me old man,I also gave her a nickname ,everytime i call her by her nickname she puts on this beautiful smile.I gave her my number a few weeks ago and she never called. A week ago i asked her if she would like to have lunch sometime, she said i would like too but i cant my boyfriend is always calling me at home when he is at work.I said thats cool i guess i will have lunch alone she giggled and said i would like too i really would ,i said well i would like too as well,she just laughed .Two days after asking her out for lunch she called me but i missed her call but she left a message,she said i just called to see what you are doing but i guess i will just talk to you later.I seen her the follwing day and told her thanks for calling it made my day ,she replied what a liar,I said, no really you made my day i didnt think you would ever call,she just smiled but in a shy way. My questionions are these, Does she like me?Did she say no to me but followed it with i would like too because she didnt want to hurt my feelings?Does she know now that i like her when i asked her out? Is that the reason she called because i asked her out? Im just confused help me out here .I will appreciate your advice and thoughts on this one
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2006): My goodness. This is gonna be a long night! J/k. First off she's in a relationship. It doesn't matter if its bad it still is a relationship. Second she has kids with him. Third you work with the girl. You're gonna build some kind of connection/attraction. I'm preety sure she feels the same way you do. But you're gonna hve to do the right thing and don't make any attempts. You f*cked up by givin the number. She f*cked up by accepting it. Leave it as that. While her and her man are doing bad you'll make it worst by jumpin in the picture. Lets say you do have an affair with her. Her man will always be first. That's the babydaddy. Believe me. I know lots of people that go thru this and its all turned out negative. Let her breathe. Give her time to think and space about what she wants.
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