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He will be away for my whole school break and I got mad!

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Question - (24 November 2017) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2017)
A female Kenya age 16-17, anonymous writes:

I met a guy maybe a week ago...hes 16 n m 15,,, i like him a lot n we've been meeting daily/ first we were both shy to even hug but now i can at least let him hold my hand...hes beebn saying he has something to tell me since 3 days ago/..but he hasnt said it thing//.i always sneak out to be with him...cuz of my dad...yet he says that i need to have enough time for him to tell me what he has to got mad at him cuz we had a lot of time...but we let it slip past us...then when i stood up to leave///he said that he would be leaving for 6 weeks...that means my whole holiday...n i got waay mad...please help

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2017):

You have only been dating this guy a week.You sound real needy.That being so needy after only knowing a short time turns guys your time getting to know someone before you get so attached.Date other people you are too young to attach yourself to one person like this.He will run for the hills if you keep this up.Slow down.

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A female reader, OMG.ThatsCool United States +, writes (26 November 2017):

OMG.ThatsCool agony auntGetting mad doesn't lead you to anything. You've just met this guy, if you both like each other that much, you guys can stay in touch online (video calls or something), and get to know about each other more.

apparently, it's just not the right timing when you guys met. Still, give him time to explain to you the reason why he's leaving. Maybe try not to rush things.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy + , writes (25 November 2017):

CindyCares agony aunt Why did you get mad ? He is 16. Most probably he has to do what his parents / family say concerning holidays and travels, it was not his choice. Same as , if you could have it your way, you'd date him openly but instead now you have to sneak away, because of your dad.

He will tell you what he has got to say when he comes back from his trip. Or, maybe he can tell you by phone or e-mail while he is away. Anyway- don't pressure him, he'll tell you when he is good and ready. You are both shy and a bit awkward, it took him some time to "warm up " ... it's not piushing or getting made that you'll make him open up to you.

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