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writes:early may - i told bf we needed a break2 days later - he moved to another city i sent him off at the airportnext day - we talked about our issues on MSN and solved it. After which things were great2 weeks later - I visited him in his new city and we had 6 days of absolute blissthe 4 days after I came back to my own city, he sent me msgs like he misses me, calls me dear etc. During this period something happened to his family and work and he became very stressed.On the 5th day we were talking on MSN and were talking about me moving to his city, but I was a bit unsure as it's a big change on my side and he does not want to settle down (well we've only been going out for 1 year). Thus I've been nagging at him for a while regarding the issue.Then, he suddenly sent me an email to say he doesn't want the relationship anymore as he's been very strained and instead of lightening the burden, I added to his stress.Things happened so fast, he was still saying he misses me the morning of the break up! Do you think there's a chance I can get him back? It's been a week and I've not contacted him
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (1 June 2008):
 Sorry -- I never watched enough of that show to know the intimate details, but at least I know what you're talking about. :)
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reader, 19agegap +, writes (1 June 2008):
19agegap is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou know Mr Big and carrie from sex and the city? The difference is, though Mr Big was commitment phobic...he NEVER broke up with Carrie.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): i don't c a reason u should get him back
i mean..i did not reallt do anyhing...
he was under alot of stress and made a mistake
nothing to get back at him for
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (31 May 2008):
Wow... interesting story... well, there's always a chance (I'm an optimist). It is completely possible that he was overloaded with all the activities that he's trying to juggle and spoke impulsively... but, you're not going to know until you can make contact with him... in other words, communication is key -- an open and frank one as well.
The only other comment that I would pass along is this: if you are thinking of moving to the same city as your BF, I'd suggest that you live in your own place and have the means to support yourself and only make the move if you feel comfortable in that place. I know too many stories where GFs have followed their BFs across the country only to discover something that didn't work out when they were actually living together (if they had never done so before). It would be advisable to be in a position where you can support yourself if you need to.
Good luck and best wishes!!
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