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writes:I have been involved with a man now for 6 years and have known all along that there were things he was concealing from me but you know how it goes I bring it up he denies everything.So for awhile I leave things alone until the other day I called his number and a female answered the phone. I just hung up. I wasn't to upset because this was one of the things I knew he was hiding.Wrote an email telling him that I've known for awhile that he was living with another women and that he needed to stay with her and make whatever they had going work. Even asked him why he would lie to me even though there was no need to do so. So I told him that because he felt the need to lie I told him that he lost a very good friend because of this.I know he"ll probably respond with some BS story telling me that it isn't what I think it is.Did I do the right thing? Reply to this Question
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reader, lerokiya  +, writes (29 March 2010):
we hate to admit it, but there are people out there who are so insecure that they have to have a lifeline just in case one relationship doesn't work, there's always plan b. congrats for choosing that you are better then anybody's plan b.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAunty Em,
No I'm not getting any pleasure from any of this but can I safely assume that you agree that he will contavt me again to see if he can worm his way back in?
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (26 March 2010):
 Yes, Unless your getting pleasure and are happy to be romantically involved with someone who cheats and plays games with you...then yes you did the right thing!
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