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writes:Last night, I was at my boyfriends house, and he while he was outside smoking, I was very very bored, and randomly decided to look through his phone.I don't know why I did it, I trusted him implicitly, and didn't expect to find anything. But people do random things when they're bored.Anyway, on his sent texts, there's a message to a girl that he's been friends with for years, saying 'do you remember us kissing last night?' and then 'yeah, but i have a girlfriend, so i'd be ridiculously grateful if you could keep this to yourself' When he came back in, I was in shock and didn't say anything. I don't think kissing is a dump-able offence, but it's the fact that he didn't tell me, and I've seen this girl quite a few times since then, and now I feel incredibly stupid. What's also weird is that I knew she liked my boyfriend, and she never ever liked me, and refused to talk to me.. Then suddenly, was overly nice, and really complimentary to me. I wondered why, and now I know. I've no idea how to bring this up now?And I actually think what I find most insulting is that he didn't even have the courtesy to delete the sodding message.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone :) you know what? the first thing he said when i told him i knew was.. well, firstly, he denied it.. then he said i wasn't supposed to find out, then that i shouldn't go through his phone.
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goodbye boy!
he attempted a half-assed 'sorry' but it was truly pathetic.
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reader, misscali  +, writes (26 March 2010):
well if i where you i would sit him down and come at him on a calm note because if ya come to aggressive that might start an argument..but just tell him i apologize for goin threw your phone but i seen the text..and i dearly trust you but what is this whole kissin thing about..and see what he says if he gets mad and doesnt want to talk about it then you should reconsider talkin to him..because thats an open window that maybe hes done more in yall relationship but will never tell..if hes so sneaky about a kiss..if he cared that much about you he would have never that happen...
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