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He wants to marry me, but he's still chatting to other women on the date site we met on..

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Question - (12 March 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female South Africa age 41-50, *naciah writes:

Hi guys out there, my name iz Anacia and I'm 34yrs old

Please help me with this one. I use to visit dateclub where one day I happened to meet this guy from Pretoria we started chating as friends bt then after we realise that we both have feelings for each other well decided to meet in person well I visited him at his place and he was very nice to me.

He is very matured and proffessional sweet and having sense of humour. I love this guy very much and he loves me a lot he wnt us to get married, well he was married before, bt having serious problems that lead to the dirvoce with the first wife. well as much as I love him I do not have any problem about marrying him, but the thing iz the time I visited him I snooped on his fone and I found out that his was buzzie chating with other girls.

We then talked about it and he said yes he was chating with them but he does not want them he wnt me, he wnt us to marry, the problem is I dnt knw anymore whether to belive him or just stop this relationship, bcos everytime I visit dateclub just to check it, I found that he was also on line chating to God knws who, and cos he iz not chating with me either,he is foning everyday mornig and afternun telling me that he want to come and meet my family so we will start abt the wedding preparations

Please people help me before I do something stupid. What do I do? Must I pretend as if I dnt knw that he is bussy chating?

And marry him or must I tell him and stop everything b4 I get hurt?

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