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duno, i'm in a relationship but confused.

I am 12 years old. Is it wrong to think about sex and at times want to do it?

Q.   ok, i am 12 and i find myself very appealing and so do guys but the thing is i am already thinking about sex. I know i am too young but i think about sex constanly and having a baby and just everything about sex. People say i am an addict to it but ...

A.   8 February 2008: hey, i was kinda like that when i was 12. so yeahhhh, well it's alright to think about it i guess because you're hormones are coming and you're growing up. but do not have sex yet! trust you will regret it! i've been like that since that age and i'm ... (read in full...)

How do I get my ex to notice me again?

Q.   I am having a hard time wondering if my ex is still into me. I mean I see him and he flirts a little and he calls once in a blue moon but I don't know. He gives me little signals that want me to think he likes me but I don't know if he does. I ...

A.   8 February 2008: yooo grow some balls.. well you know what i mean. you're at least like 12 so hmmm. he probably still has feelings for you but doesn't want to be with you if you're not together? i don't know, get a friend to talk to him maybe? thats the best i can ... (read in full...)

Gay mate that I need to help! any advice please?

Q.   okay this question is about my friend.. she's a lesbian. so there's this girl that she's been dating on and off. this girl hurts her so much and i can't take it. she says crap behind her back, and she even knows what she says. i've helped my friend ...

A.   2 February 2008: thanks babess3... (read in full...)

I need to know---could I possibly be in love?

Q.   I met this one guy about 2 months ago and there was an immediate attraction. we started hanging out and I started to like him more and more. oh yea, I'm 15 and he's 17. we both like each other but we aren't going out because he is having a tough ...

A.   18 January 2008: uhhm, you could just have really strong feelings. but please don't do stuff with him if you're not together because he could be saying all that stuff just to get in your pants seeing as he's a sex addict. talk to him about it though.. ask him if he ... (read in full...)

Is it ok to date my step-brother??

Q.   i really like my step brother we are not blood releated just his mum got married to my dad do you think it is okay to date him?...

A.   6 January 2008: uhhm, it's really up to you. like it depends how you two get along. if you get along like really really good and you think that you guys have no reason to break up, then go for it. but if not and there's going to be problems, then it's going to be ... (read in full...)

He wants sex but I don't. What should I do?

Q.   i have this great boyfriend.. and well one day i found out from friends that he was ready to have sex.. and i asked him about.. and he said it was true..and just to be funny with him i asked him for a condum..then next thing i know he comes up to ...

A.   6 January 2008: well most guys that young just think about sex. and when you joke around with him about sex he's not joking. you need to tell him you were joking around so he know's you weren't serious. talk to him about this.. tell him you're not ready for that ... (read in full...)

We have jealousy issues on both sides and fight constantly, what do I do about this??

Q.   i really need help.. this might sound stupid or whatever but i just don't know how to deal with it.. so i go out with this kid.. i reallyreally like him. but there's jealousy issues on both sides. we fight constantly and shit and i just get mad ...

A.   29 December 2007: thankks3... (read in full...)

Is she just teaseing me for fun??

Q.   Well, myself and this special girl like each other, this would be the third time weve gone out with each other, but she teases me alot, mostly on the phone. I mean its okay sometimes cause ill tease her back, but it just seems like a majority...

A.   25 December 2007: welll, what is she teasing you about first of all..... (read in full...)

Was he shocked to hear I love him and how can you tell from kissing he wants sex??

Q.   Ok, I'm 14 and my bf is 16 andI gave him his Christmas present 2 days ago, which was a stuffed animal that he absolutly loved. I also wrote him a note about how great the past 2 months have been, which is how long we've been together. I don't kn...

A.   25 December 2007: okay, after 2 months you guys are not going to be in love especially at your age. i'm 14 too, but you're too young. kissing is fine but don't start thinking about sex. a lot of people my age are getting into that and they regret it. also you don't ... (read in full...)

How should I masturbate??

Q.   Could someone please give me advice on how to masturbate? I'm only 10 but I'm surrounded by sex loving people. My friend is doing it and so is my Dad. What am I supposed to do?...

A.   25 December 2007: okay you're a girl? don't be influenced by these people, you are too young to do that stuff. at least wait till you're older and learn about it. you don't want to become a sex addict at 10 years old.... (read in full...)

He's newly divorced and has already found a new gf. Would I sound clingy if I write him a Christmas card? - in symbol I'm there for him/as friends?

Q.   It turns out that the guy I really like has a new girlfriend (sure it's a rebound thing, she doesn't seem his type at all, and he's just divorced). He knows I like him, but now I feel self concious about sending him a Christmas card - I would l...

A.   22 December 2007: hmm it depends what kind of person he is.. if you feel he gets annoyed from you, then don't do anything. if you feel he thinks of you as a friend then it's alright to wish him a merry christmas. ... (read in full...)

My friend messes me about but I really like him, even though I have a boyfriend

Q.   I am mates with this guy who is a year younger than me. We have done loads of stuff together over the past year but we never went out. He stopped talking to me for a month and then started to text me again last night. He wants to get with me and is ...

A.   22 December 2007: forget him. he's probably just lonely. don't let it get to your head. ... (read in full...)

How can I tell if she still loves and wants me after we've broken up?

Q.   me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year. Thing between us where pretty good we had a few arguements.She broke up with once because she said "I was not be serious with and she couldn't trust me." we broke for a while but go back ...

A.   21 December 2007: hmmm. i'm familiar with this situation. it's just like me and my bf. she probably feels mixed feelings about what you do and say to her. and probably has trust issues, just like most girls. don't take it too serious because she'll think you're using ... (read in full...)

Confused over whom to choose..my bf or this older boy at school?

Q.   alright so i go out with this kid a year older than me. righttt we fight a lot and stuff and he lives in a diff. town. i like him a lot and i've liked him for almost a year now. but there's this senior that started talking to me now. i told him i ...

A.   20 December 2007: waitwait. forget this question. i'm done with it but thank you!... (read in full...)

I think I'm falling in love with a 21 year old, and I'm only 14

Q.   i'm 14... i have these really strong feelings for a 21 year old. he says the sweetest things to me and makes me feel so good. i don't know what to do about this. but i'm not aloud to see him because i got in trouble with the police for being with ...

A.   19 December 2007: thanks so much!... (read in full...)

I think I'm falling in love with a 21 year old, and I'm only 14

Q.   i'm 14... i have these really strong feelings for a 21 year old. he says the sweetest things to me and makes me feel so good. i don't know what to do about this. but i'm not aloud to see him because i got in trouble with the police for being with ...

A.   18 December 2007: thank you guys so much.. i'm trying to not talk to the 21 year old anymore and get over him. i realized i can't be with a 21 year old so why even bother.. i'm too young for this. but anyways thanks..it means alot.... (read in full...)

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